I hear a lot of complaints about the weekend event and my only advice is:
STOP WHINING!
And do something about it. When you go into the elite mission with an experienced group, try to bring along a few players who aren't familiar with the elites. Sure, it may take a little longer, but it will help prevent those people from wasting their time and getting angry. Accept even just 1 inexperienced player each time and teach him/her how to do the mission. All of a sudden, they start to learn how to beat it and they start teaching others.
Call me soft, flame me, do whatever you want- but if you follow my advice, the inexperienced players you take will learn quickly and there will be much less aggrivation for both the good and the bad players. I have proof of this from working in a PuG party- there were only 3 people who were good at the mission and they let me and 8 others who had never done the mission before into their group. They didn't mind- it took another 20 minutes to set everyone's skills, but we beat Urgoz without too much difficulty on the first try. Now all members of that party know how to beat the mission, what skills to take, and what to do (and not do *cough*runahead*cough*).
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