need help with N/E build

im factions only lvl 9 and right now im running a MM build with armor and aftershock or whatever its called (damage and kd to all enemies around you)
any help would be greatly aprecciated

If you are playing MM, you shouldn't have nuking spells. Your skill bar should be full of skills to raise minions, heal minions, and heal yourself. Some MM choose to play with 1-2 offensive spells, but I find that redundant if you are only using those spells for the first few corpses, which your teammates can easily do.
Aura of Restoration is great for self-healing I guess, but since you are Necro primary, you might as well get Monk secondary for healing.

ok i was using silver armor but right after i posted this i removed all points in earth and went to blood

All your points should go to Death and Soul Reaping. Any leftovers can go anywhere you like, but I usually get them to Healing Prayer because I use secondary Monk.

well im not sure if i want to stay as a MM and i dont like healing

MM requires constant healing. to be a BA and a N/ele go blood and fire man. Life siphon
3 vamp skills
firestorm
meteor
flare
res

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Or you can go blood.

Life Siphon
Vampiric Gaze
Vampiric Swarm

Then use whatever other blood spells and death spells you have (not summoning, but things like Death Swarm).