I think this is where I am going to hit a problem then. I like Oblivion BECAUSE I can 'go it alone' and take my time. I hated the awful scenes inside the Oblivion gates, and was looking around for another good-graphics but no-gore rpg, and someone recommended GW, so I got it - but I have to say it probably isn't going to keep me. No criticisms on the game itself, just my preferences. I am not a team-player and I am not good at making quick decisions, nor do I like constantly fighting. I will give it a shot, just to make sure, and because, having paid a goodly sum, I don't want to give up until I AM sure ( I can't sell it on to anyone else I understand).
Someone else mentioned City of Heroes, so I might look into that, although now, having found a mod that deals with the corpses in Oblivion, I am much happier in that game - but as you say, a change is a rest, and another rpg would be nice, when the piggy-bank has recovered.