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Originally Posted by Aeon221
How dare I demand that people whom I have invited into my group play with _at a minimum_ an optimized bar and some common sense! You're right, they have the right to waste my time with poor play!
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If you hadnt used the word
"demand", and you had said
"asked", I would completely agree with you.
The problem with joining PUGs is people
"demand" you do this, and that. Its that sheer lack of manors and politeness which causes the issues.
Why do you need to
"demand" something?
Are you not capable of politely asking someone what their skills are and politely suggesting they change them and explaining why.
If you took the time to actual be a real leader, and instructed and educated people as to why they need to change skills, they would accept it.
But if you bark orders at someone their not going to respond nicely. They get defensive and ignore you. Then you ultimately kick them within 2 seconds because they refuse..
It doesnt cost anything to be polite and speak to people with respect.
There is nothing wrong with asking team members to change skills, or builds, provided you ask nicely.
You also have to accept that players may never have used that build before, or may not have those skills. If they dont have them or they dont know how to use the build, then you have to compromise and not just kick them.
Do you understand?
But the fact is (and you cant deny this), you dont need specialised teams for 90% of GuildWars. The only areas you need a the "perfect party" is inside elite areas, or certain missions (which are very few).
The other 90% you can quite easily complete, using any old build and combination and party. Aslong as you have 2 monks, a tank, a dmg dealer and what ever else, you can complete most quests and missions.
I laugh at people, when I join a party in an early section of a campaign, and the leader spends 30 minutes going "right, everyone use the builds I say" or "we need this profession because it cant be done with it".
You know fine well, that it makes no difference and the leader is just trying to be controlling. But most times, I just go along with it because I want the mission done.