ok i am a lvl 12 ele/monk
all the quests i have are wayyy to hard to even get do...and it is so hard to find people....i spend last few days leveling my killin stuff at zehlon's reach, but it is ridiculously slow...
wat should i do?
lOSTn00b
Striking Nimbus
fujin
Well, you can always ask your guild mates to help you out, since most of the guilds have experienced players willing to help.
Commander Ryker
Have you skipped quests/missions to get to a different area? Maybe you went to far and that's why you're having problems. Try going from the start and look for quests or missions you may have skipped.
Sofonisba
Have you been taking all the bounties offered by the scouts at the res shrines? You will level very very quickly, and also more quests will open up as you go up in Sunspear rank. 
Coloneh
if you are following the quests/missions in order it should be extremely easy. see if you missed something. http://gw.gamewikis.org/wiki/Mission...28Nightfall%29
wetsparks
this may sound stupid, but dont forget to bring along your heros or some henchman. since you say that your new that is something that is easily overlooked.