This is not GW-specific, by the way. My husband and I are both online gamers (I'm GW, he's WoW) and we have a cable internet connection from Cox Communications.
Cox is the only ISP which can service our area with cable or DSL. (Monopolies ftl.) We have debilitating lag, both of us, always at exactly the same time as one another, and usually around the same time at night. Usually it's 8:30-10pm, of course high-net-traffic times.

Cox of course denies there is anything wrong with our connection, no matter when we call, which may be true on average, but a lag spike means a helluva lot more to us than it does to them.
I am wondering if there is anything we can do on our end to improve our performance. We have a Motorola cable modem and a (wired) dlink router, model EBR 2310, if that helps. We both have brand-new machines (Gateway) with Windows Vista and plenty of memory, but the lag problems were there before the comps were. We scan for viruses and spyware with 2 different programs weekly, so there is no chance of that.
Would getting a "gamer" router improve our situation? If so, which is the best? Is there anything we can do? lol Anyway I appreciate anyone's thoughts.
Thanks
