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Originally Posted by hey its grace
I think the OP (and a bunch of people who responded) need to shift the way they think about recruiting. A lot of people leave guilds because of good reasons. It is on YOU to find reasons for them to stay in your guild.
I have seen people just stand around and shout about their guild in the main towns, and just invite anyone who PMs them back without any sort of interview or even just asking about that person. If you want to find people who will like what your guild has to offer, you need to do some digging on them-- ask a bunch of questions BEFORE you send an invitation. If they start to get impatient and say things like "just invite me already" then you know you have a poor quality member on your hands. They will leave within the week.
Only the true, quality members will actually wait for you to explain your guild, and they will appreciate that you are putting effort into talking to them about it before they make any decision. Guild-Hoppers don't care and just want to get in and out. If you ask them questions, they get anxious and start making comments or just stop answering.
The people who are in the middle -- those are ones you need to work on IN your guild, finding things for them to do, motivating them to play with other people, finding what everyone is interested in and encouraging & developing that. You can't just spam invites and expect to have high retention.
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I agree to that, and I'll add the following;
If you're an officer or a leader, play with your (new) members. Offer help. Get to know them, what they need help with and what they are good at - not only to succeed, but to get them more... confident in their skills. I swear, this will get you loyal members. Create activities, encourage them to get their characters such and such skills - and help them too - so they can participate in them when they can't.
Some members also think that the officers are their personal slaves, because they're sometimes more active and more experienced - I've seen people leave other guilds (not mine) and complain because the officers couldn't help all the time. Hell, I'm an officer and I need help too. I want to play the game. You CAN'T expect them to always be available for everything... can't expect anyone to be perfect anyways.
One thing I've noticed, about encouraging them to play with others... sure it's fun to offer help, but it's also nice when they start to team up with each other and form friendships. Sometimes, officers have to back off a bit

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