So I've played this profession for a while now, and it is definitely not one of my better professions to play. I really need guidance and advice with my ritualist and builds.
Even more so with the October 12th update that spirits now suffer from burning and -50 health, I just turn a blind eye to using spirits now because of that, as many of them die quite fast as it is, or as it was. Is the result of the update as bad as it sounds?

I wish I could make one of those intriguing builds that when looked at people go, "hey, that's pretty clever..." Of course, I lack the understanding of this profession to do so, hense why I'm posting a thread seeking help.
I have looked at other forum posts and stickeys that seem to offer some assistance with skills, builds and the like, but often these discussions are turned into mixed opinions that don't have a sense of direction, and often I find myself getting lost in what I'm reading and trying to understand. Also, some are out-dated and I doubt would be as effective as they were in todays game play (updates, new skills, nerfs etc...)
I do feel that the Ritualist is a good profession to play: it's fun, different, unique and bizarre, with the added bonus of an entertaining dance from the males and, a conspicuously distinctive dance from the females.
Thanks in advance =]