1. WTF is with this "r3+" or "r9+++" only members in a party? Because I feel like going to AB (Kurzicks vs. Luxons) and doing that for faction. Most people don't let me in their party because I'm apparently too low a rank or something... so..........help please?

2. Anyone know the best build for an Assassin or Dervish? I use Onslaught build... D/---. Like, Lyssa's Assault, Mystic Sweep, Cripping Sweep, Featherfoot Grace, Onslaught (Elite Skill. All of your skills recharge 25% faster and cost 25% less energy.) It's basically a build where you use 600+ hp and spam attack skills using skills that have cooldowns no lower than 10s. My Assassin is A/D. It uses Vital Boon, Whirling Charge, Phoenix Strike (Off-Hand, but since I'm enchanted, I can use it), then Horns of the Ox (listed as Trampling Ox in the game... which knockdowns any isolated foe), then Falling Spider (must hit a knocked down foe), then some attack that does 15 or 20 dmg foe each of my recharging skills, so that's 45, then I usually hit 80 dmg average... and it's always a doube strike, then I finish up with Impale, inflicts deep-wound, as a spell from a distance.
3. Where are people getting all this cool stuff? I hear there is some tournament going on at certain times of the day. And you can get Zaishen Keys from that and use it on this Zaishen Chest on Nameless Isle for either really good stuff or really crappy. Because I see people with like a scythe, but the scythe part at the end looks like a bone that's shaped like ~~. I'm just wondering where people get them. Unless it is PvE. I also see a fair few Warriors using like this gray spiked strong armour and this dark spiked big long sword. I also saw someone using something that resembles a rapier, but it is kind of thicker than a rapier, and not as long.