poll on guildwars ending relationships

Selket

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2005

Grand Court of Selket/Sebelkeh

What If You Had An Outpost Named After You [slkt]

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I broke up with my ex because they were bad at guild wars, their insanity had nothing to do with it.


Ups.

X Ice Man X

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Aug 2007

England

Quote:
Originally Posted by Jenny
i'm pretty sure i broke so many hearts into Guild Wars it's amazing
i had so many e-relationship men are def pretty dumb thinking i'd be interested by them irl
basically i had ... what... hummm let's say 6 relationship on the game funny stuff right lol
all gave me money and helped me pve (i hate growing a pve char on my own its hell boring) so i'm quite happy from that
and all ended for some escuses i wud find... they all cried so much was great

can blame me "oh boo boo u're not a good person" yeah get over it its i-net guys
Wow your life sounds so... Empty and I must say quiet sad if you think this is having a good time.

Selket

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2005

Grand Court of Selket/Sebelkeh

What If You Had An Outpost Named After You [slkt]

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Quote:
Originally Posted by X Ice Man X
Wow your life sounds so... Empty and I must say quiet sad if you think this is having a good time.
It is having a good time.

Jenny is awsum.

neighto

neighto

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Nov 2005

The Heart of Life is [Love]

My fiance and I both play the game.. as well as her son the only fighting the game causes is when someone gets a spiffy rare drop and someone else wants it lol.

Snow Bunny

Snow Bunny

Alcoholic From Yale

Join Date: Jul 2007

Strong Foreign Policy [sFp]

Quote:
Originally Posted by Ravious
which would you rather have a smashed pc or an empty home?

i remember one of those nerd questions: which would you rather give up for eternity, sex or internet?
Internet.

123456

Taki

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: May 2005

N/Me

Inde you're such a Negative Nancy today

I've only heard of relationships ending over compulsive gaming but had those people not had gaming it probably would've been something else anyway. I recently learned some people can be addicted to "online mature entertainment" and as you might imagine, that has caused more than a fair share of failed relationships. Off topic I know but w/e, I thought it was weird adn worth sharing.

Personally I've never ended a relationship because a game and can't imagine doing so, but I have broke up with at least one person because she, like a lot of women, just can't tell time.

"I'm busy I'll call you back in five" does not mean hound my damn phone for the next ten minutes or fill up my voicemail with useless ranting and threats. It means I will call you back in about five minutes since you're not talking about anything interesting, and I'm busy - maybe on a game or maybe handling other business. Point is, don't bother me for about five minutes. Check your watch or something.

Selket

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2005

Grand Court of Selket/Sebelkeh

What If You Had An Outpost Named After You [slkt]

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Quote:
Originally Posted by Inde
There are many many support groups out there for spouses/b & g friends and more dealing with an addiction to gaming. After WoW they began popping up everywhere. Unfortunately there are more loved ones upset and at their wits end, more divorces and break ups over gaming then there are people "falling in love" in game.
But our love makes up for all of that, right?

...right?

D:

~ Dan ~

Forge Runner

Join Date: Dec 2006

D/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Snow Bunny
Internet.

123456
Nerd answer.

Snow Bunny

Snow Bunny

Alcoholic From Yale

Join Date: Jul 2007

Strong Foreign Policy [sFp]

Quote:
Originally Posted by dan-the-noob
Nerd answer.
You'd give up sex for eternity? Instead of the internet?

Sweet jesus.....

Teh internets will luv u alwayz?

Red Sonya

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Jul 2005

Quote:
Originally Posted by Jenny
i'm pretty sure i broke so many hearts into Guild Wars it's amazing
i had so many e-relationship men are def pretty dumb thinking i'd be interested by them irl
basically i had ... what... hummm let's say 6 relationship on the game funny stuff right lol
all gave me money and helped me pve (i hate growing a pve char on my own its hell boring) so i'm quite happy from that
and all ended for some escuses i wud find... they all cried so much was great

can blame me "oh boo boo u're not a good person" yeah get over it its i-net guys
Lol Jenny that is so funny. I think people obtaining "SERIOUS" relationships online without even seeing or really knowing the person is silly stupid as well. I remember when I used to "play" on AOL and went through 13 females in one year lol. Wooed em till I got what I wanted (sex) then found some reason (anything) to dump them and go onto the next. hahaha

Angelica

Angelica

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Jan 2006

Aussie land

Me/E

GW did not change my real life, I play when I can, and that is enough for me and for the people close to me ...... whom I love a lot more more that GW.

/Angelica

~ Dan ~

Forge Runner

Join Date: Dec 2006

D/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Snow Bunny
You'd give up sex for eternity? Instead of the internet?

Sweet jesus.....

Teh internets will luv u alwayz?
Misread the question Internet it is.

Squishy ftw

Squishy ftw

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2007

Your backline

W/

Guildwars doesnt end relationships, nor is it the cause of it.

If your relationship ends because you spend more time on GW than with your partner then there are far bigger problems in your relationship than GW.

Like, why is GW more entertaining for you than your partner FFS ?


If you can't appreciate a good partner and give her/him the attention they need then you deserve to be abandoned. Love is very valuable, cherish it..before it's gone.

Snow Bunny

Snow Bunny

Alcoholic From Yale

Join Date: Jul 2007

Strong Foreign Policy [sFp]

Quote:
Originally Posted by dan-the-noob
Misread the question Internet it is.

LifeInfusion

LifeInfusion

Grotto Attendant

Join Date: May 2005

in the midline

E/Mo

I knew people that played grindy MMOs. I told them it sucked and they said GW sucked because of lack of item diversity. I said at least I'm not grinding for stuff.

GG.

(not friends to begin with but yeh)

Molock

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Sep 2006

Qu??bec

Legacy of Angels [Halo]

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I don't see why a relationship should come to an end because one of the two plays Guild Wars.... unless of course one of the two becomes an addict and loses interest in their gf/bf.

About meeting people on GW. I don't know anyone that desperate.

Vl Vl D

Vl Vl D

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Feb 2007

Australia

[DVDF]

Quote:
Lucky her.
Yeah your right my wife does tell me every day. Personally I would love to stay home play with our little kids, ebay her art, play GW when I want, bake nice things and be proud of her home that she help pay for aswell desinged.

Trust me the 50ies idea of men working while women stay home to tend the nest works because when you both work 50-70hours each a week nothing gets done at home and your both to tied to give a damn about each other.

shrouded^god

shrouded^god

IGN: J C A C H E

Join Date: Sep 2006

843

[Liar]

Ive been playing GW for a long long time... But February 8th will be 5 years for me and my GF, so Ive been with her much longer. She dislikes the amount of time I spend playing, but we never fight/argue about it. If this game would make a "partner" end the relationship between you two; you're better off without'em.

Ku Ku

Ku Ku

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: May 2006

England

[MYST]

Rt/R

Quote:
Originally Posted by sterbenx2
If your Gf or wife is making a big deal about playing games and you feel your not playing enough for her to complain, kick her.

No matter what your hobby is, you should be allowed to do it in peace. I understand some people do have a problem with knowing when enough is enough but people should also realize that other people can be unreasonable and expect too much. hence why my ex is now my ex and my GF is NOT my ex. 50/50 FTW.

GW is ONE of many reasons why my ex got kicked. Her build was bad and she just wasn't a team player.

I have to say i agree to a large extent, ideally (As has been stated before) gamers need to date gamers - its like goths dating goths for example, you should date someone that will understand your interests otherwise you tend to be dating someone whose not enough like you to make the relationship work!

Mine and my bf's realtionship works because we are both gamers (even if he is a filthy wow player) we can talk to each other about stats, characters and the like and we D&D together too with our friends - which is great fun (Apart from his scaryily-uncanny knack with dice. I swear its rigged!)

Balan Makki

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Nov 2007

Hmm, not in GWs yet. But in WoW? OMG, what a mess that game made of half the adults in my last guild, destroyed real-life friendships, divorces, mass hysteria and screaming fits over Vent, a couple of hook ups, well I guess it's kind a like real life, and not like real life. . . . Funny how people only escape reality to find themselves making the same mess in virtual reality. But yeah, no fun in WoW when most of your guild is fooled into thinking they're playing something worth more than RL, "It's just a game." I'd keep telling them. Addiction has a way of ignoring the truth.

Bryant Again

Bryant Again

Hall Hero

Join Date: Feb 2006

I've had some pretty bad luck with girls in guilds. The guy's would fawn and flirt with them constantly and e-flirting/drama would ensue. The last guild I was in was actually pretty mature and with a few girls, but me and my friend got banned from there for jackassery (we thought that IQ wouldn't win the championship, my friend got in a fight with a few of them, we left.)

Since Balan brought it up, I can't really comment a whole lot on WoW's e-drama since my guilds are pretty casual and hence pretty mature. I will say that a lot of people take it more seriously, and since it has a whole lot more people, there will be a whole lot more drama. Here's one of the biggest incidents of this happening, and it's so legendary it has its own WoWwiki page!

Nevin

Nevin

Furnace Stoker

Join Date: Jul 2005

lol once i met dis ele she was like dancing naked so like lol i was like asl plz? and she was like maybe latur aligator omg what a tease lol? i think shes my gf now.

Rexion

Rexion

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Aug 2007

[Luck]

E/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Snow Bunny
Teh internets will luv u alwayz?
did someone say... PORN?

Quote:
Originally Posted by Balan Makki
Funny how people only escape reality to find themselves making the same mess in virtual reality.
I have a friend from WoW that met another guy, in WoW and our guild. They were interested in each other; they met each other as well. They were both really nice... I was friends with both of them. It didn't work out though for non-gaming reasons >.>

Quote:
Originally Posted by Nevin
lol once i met dis ele she was like dancing naked so like lol i was like asl plz? and she was like maybe latur aligator omg what a tease lol? i think shes my gf now.
as they say to those pimps in "da crib" of West Virgina. GET 'ER DONE HOMIE

Shakti

Shakti

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Sep 2006

Home...

Vier Reiter [Vier]

Quote:
Originally Posted by Balan Makki
. . . Funny how people only escape reality to find themselves making the same mess in virtual reality. ...
Damn QFT right there ^^^ Brilliant man....have a cookie

FengShuiDove

FengShuiDove

Forge Runner

Join Date: Sep 2007

Trinity of the Ascended [ToA]

A/

My girlfriend plays with me. Furthermore, she got me started on the game.

I've met some friends, but no more seriously than "Let's go clear ______" or "Let's do _________" in game.

garethporlest18

garethporlest18

Forge Runner

Join Date: Jan 2006

[HiDe]

W/

I'd give up sex and internets for food. Nothing beats good food. I tell ya. If I'm not fat enough to be rollin down the hill then life sucks.

Curse You

Curse You

Furnace Stoker

Join Date: Apr 2006

South Pole

The Magus Order

N/Mo

I can't say I know of any relationships between people playing Guild Wars. My guild is mostly inactive, save for half the officers and some members. As far as I know, all the currently active members are male, straight male.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kahlindra
That said, our housemate got his girlfriend from WoW. She's normal, and incredibly hot. And actually a girl! I was amazed.
WTB GF?

Quote:
Originally Posted by 6am3 Fana71c
Oh wow man, less info please. And btw, you shouldn't grind sex, take it like a man and finish the job
LFP for sex!

Quote:
Originally Posted by Ku Ku
EDIT: lol just read the posts about Sex not being as good as Gw - Try role play, after all thats the type of game we're all playing... you can be the big wammo come to save the little e/mo from the big bad charr.... or even better be the charr (fluffy ears ftw!) XD!!!
Who says the e/mo can't take the charr on?

Lady Yuna

Lady Yuna

Academy Page

Join Date: Jan 2008

inside your closet.......

ViLE

Mo/W

wonder when Starcraft 2 will come out..........maybe then people in US can get asian girls

Selket

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2005

Grand Court of Selket/Sebelkeh

What If You Had An Outpost Named After You [slkt]

W/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Lady Yuna
wonder when Starcraft 2 will come out..........maybe then people in US can get asian girls
cuz asians only play starcraft and do not exist outside of this world of starcraft

urrite

Saelis Scarfang

Academy Page

Join Date: Dec 2007

Savior of Souls

Mo/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Taki
I've only heard of relationships ending over compulsive gaming but had those people not had gaming it probably would've been something else anyway.

...

"I'm busy I'll call you back in five" does not mean hound my damn phone for the next ten minutes or fill up my voicemail with useless ranting and threats. It means I will call you back in about five minutes since you're not talking about anything interesting, and I'm busy - maybe on a game or maybe handling other business. Point is, don't bother me for about five minutes. Check your watch or something.
/agree

Seriously, if I'm busy, I'm busy. I've had my ex come over to 'surprise' me at my house and he'd get pissed because I was playing. If he was in a WoW raid and I called/pm'ed him on MSN he would reply that he was raiding and would talk to me later, so I'd go off and play my games. Then he'd call me back later and I'd be playing and he'd get mad if I told him I'd talk to him later. If I didn't answer a phone text he'd call up within 5 minutes to demand why I didn't answer. Or he'd come into WC3 to check if I was on Bnet and b*tch at me. So I made a new name for BNet and put my MSN on "appear offline".

I mean seriously, just because I'm a girl doesn't mean I spend my life pining for my boyfriend. If I call him and he's busy, I am bloody well gonna do something else rather than wait beside the phone for his call. I expect him to do the same. When I'm playing a game, half the time I'm too engrossed to even hear my phone vibrate on the table. And I don't throw a hissy fit when HE doesn't hear MY calls.

Oh, and he'd get all mad if I told him he wasn't playing properly. Sheesh, if you suck in Dota, you suck in Dota, no amount of lying is gonna change the fact that you are a liability.

...Contrary to popular belief, I AM quite a nice person.

Selket

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2005

Grand Court of Selket/Sebelkeh

What If You Had An Outpost Named After You [slkt]

W/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Saelis Scarfang
Oh, and he'd get all mad if I told him he wasn't playing properly. Sheesh, if you suck in Dota, you suck in Dota, no amount of lying is gonna change the fact that you are a liability.
But if you're honest, how can you play awesome headgames?

fail!

Saelis Scarfang

Academy Page

Join Date: Dec 2007

Savior of Souls

Mo/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Selket
But if you're honest, how can you play awesome headgames?

fail!
I don't play awesome headgames. I treat 'em like shit and they still love me, I DON'T KNOW WHY!

Edit: Kay I guess I'm just irresistible.

Tea Girl

Tea Girl

Banned

Join Date: Jan 2007

Mo/Me

Quote:
Originally Posted by Vl Vl D
My girlfriend now wife hated computer games but I made her monk for my wamo in the early days and yeah I use to yell at her when I didnt get hp. She plays necro mostly now when she aint cooking or cleaning.
OMG

bestest quote ever

Lady Yuna

Lady Yuna

Academy Page

Join Date: Jan 2008

inside your closet.......

ViLE

Mo/W

Quote:
Originally Posted by Selket
cuz asians only play starcraft and do not exist outside of this world of starcraft

urrite
well I meant Koreans lol(some japanese play GW: Supernova Japan[SpNv] or the less heard Heart of Ashes and Dust[HaND)

mrmango

mrmango

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Oct 2006

Southern California

Charter Vanguard [CV]

Me/Rt

If it fails, chances are you're doing it wrong, or it needs a nerf.

Selket

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2005

Grand Court of Selket/Sebelkeh

What If You Had An Outpost Named After You [slkt]

W/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Lady Yuna
well I meant Koreans lol(some japanese play GW: Supernova Japan[SpNv] or the less heard Heart of Ashes and Dust[HaND)
You're right.

No Koreans have ever played this game. Especially not EviL, WM, or RenO. And I was never in any of them.

O wait.

Zonzai

Zonzai

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Feb 2005

E/

Online relationships are always ill-fated.

Selket

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2005

Grand Court of Selket/Sebelkeh

What If You Had An Outpost Named After You [slkt]

W/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Zonzai
Online relationships are always ill-fated.
Nuh uh.

You're always ill-fated.

Give peace a chance.

Anything's possible.

Love is found in the strangest places, and flourishes in the strangest enviroments.


Just cause you hates it doesn't mean you have to make fun of other people D:.

Saelis Scarfang

Academy Page

Join Date: Dec 2007

Savior of Souls

Mo/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Zonzai
Online relationships are always ill-fated.
Online as in purely online? Or people who meet online and get into rl relationships?

credit

credit

Banned

Join Date: Jan 2008

Team Apathy [aFk]

W/P

Quote:
Originally Posted by Vl Vl D
My girlfriend now wife hated computer games but I made her monk for my wamo in the early days and yeah I use to yell at her when I didnt get hp. She plays necro mostly now when she aint cooking or cleaning.
LOL dude that's the funniest shit I've ever heard.