09 Mar 2008 at 15:38 - 11
He has a point. Calling him sissy or pansy will make you look like an asshole, not help his gameplay. If that happens, GG making another sub-par player for the community.
As for the build, think of what each of the Avatars is for. Balthazar is for speed and attack. gives a nice armor buff and auto IAS, both great for killing stuff, not acting as a damage sponge. If you want to tank, get Melandru, which gives you immunity to conditions, extra HP, and gives you earth damage, nice if you aren't running a lot of attacks. Take Wild Blow and Wearying Strike, as you don't have to worry about weakness, and you can absorb damage and kill stuff. Dwayna is nice for getting all that HP with each skill you use, so you can load up on attack skills AND get a health buff. The Dwayna a few posts above would be great.
A Dervish is a Zealot warrior. Zealots are holy warriors. They fight with aggression and passion, not by sitting there and taking hits, but by bring the wrath of their gods onto their enemies. The Dervish skills are set up for that. You CAN tank with them. Hell, you can tank with any profession if you want to. It won't be near as effect, though, as doing what your profession was made to do. In this case, to kill multiple enemies with a big scythe.