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Originally Posted by Joe Fierce
Ah, someone who believes in nature rather than nurture, very interesting, i respect your opinion but have to disagree, i believe the way people are treated shapes them, but sheltering them from the real world is worse than helping them to learn to accept it.
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I dont totally believe that nature has everything to do with a persons evolution. But i think it has a lot to do with it. Like Zodiac sign/genetics will make you prone to certain tendencies (like a template), but your upbringing instills your values/morals.
For instance, My family always tells me that they could already tell that i was going to be mischievous/troublemaker from 6 months old on. But if it hadn't been for my grandmother, the morals i have today might be completely different.
From something as trivial as if i hadnt been homeless for a year in Colorado i might not have the same appreciation for any and all foods. (I used to be picky)
it goes without saying that i very well likely would not be successful today if it hadn't been for experiences in my past, but my core has remained the same since birth.
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Originally Posted by Joe Fierce
And those who see themselves as adults will always get buttherd by seeing others having fun that they try to tell themselves they are "too mature" to participate in. When really the thing they truly wish to do is let the kid out of themselves and stop being a day to day robot cubicle dweller.
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That would be my main mantra in life.
"I will never grow up, Im a toys R Us kid"
And the fruits of my experiences have proven that you dont have to walk around with a puckered cornhole to be successful in life. You dont have to take everything seriously to be taken seriously. You can take everything with a grain of salt and live a healthy happy life. And most of all, you dont have to live in the box your whole life just because its "safe".
When a person stays on one side of the fence, they cant see whats on the other side. Me i like to sit on the fence so i can see both sides. Or when you live in a fishbowl, your view of the outside world is distorted.