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Originally Posted by the_jos
Haven't seen this in a long time. Our guild didn't recruit active for a long time now and we are still getting request from old guildies if they can come back.
If I ask in GC who wants to team I might get a few members with me, or not.
Everyone who has been with our guild knows and understands that. Some officers became frustrated because scheduled events didn't occur because no players wanted to join. That's our guild, one time you have 8 or more players for an event, the other time you are alone. If you don't want that, bye!
I think many players don't understand that a guild is made by all players.
Many want something from the guild instead of offering something to the guild.
And it's not that you should help others achieve their goals and not achieving your own.
It's about teaming up together once in a while or chatting about stupid things.
If your goal is doing Eternal Grove today, don't expect any help. You are on your own because it's your goal. But if you ask in GC if someone wants to join you might get a positive reply. Because someone might be up for some fun/challenge. Or might need it, but can't join today, but will be able next week.
In the end, it's all in recruiting and setting expectations.
That's the reason that we stopped recruiting. Too many players who have high expectations that we can't meet. Not because we are bad, but because many players expectations are not realistic.
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I tend to agree with what you're saying here.
I've found people don't realise that what you get out of the guild is based on what you put in.
The bit about getting help/company but understanding that you might not get it is the same in my guild, we have a good time chatting about stuff and grouping for different things whenever and offering friendship, support and advice. We try events and sometimes people come along sometimes they don't.
Still we have a steady 85+ members with a core of 25 or so, with some great people and good friends.
Our recruiting has moved more now to getting people who we get along with and whom will fit in, so we're finding more dedicated people, but still it's hard to vet people too much and you always have some who leave pretty quick...but I say that's their loss