Necro vs Para ... which is better for H/H

except MoP requires foes to be relatively balled up to do that tons of damage and if i wanted to play tanknspank-ish with other humans instead of run around and blow shit up i'd run cryway. You haven't run an AP/MoP bar yourself, have you?

First of all, you have [Barbs]. There's your "Orders" right there. Then you have [Ebon Vanguard Assassin Support]. Every time you kill something you can throw another of those up.

The AP machine is basically an engine for the abuse of ridiculous PvE-only skills, as well as some normal ones with a huge recharge time.

You don't need to run "Tank-n-Spank" for a MoP bar to be effective - in fact, it's not a good idea, because Mark induces a lot of scatter. Everytime you kill, you have another MoP, and another pain focus.

You haven't run an AP/MoP bar yourself, have you?

First of all, you have [Barbs]. There's your "Orders" right there. Then you have [Ebon Vanguard Assassin Support]. Every time you kill something you can throw another of those up.

The AP machine is basically an engine for the abuse of ridiculous PvE-only skills, as well as some normal ones with a huge recharge time.

You don't need to run "Tank-n-Spank" for a MoP bar to be effective - in fact, it's not a good idea, because Mark induces a lot of scatter. Everytime you kill, you have another MoP, and another pain focus. yeah i've played it and it was pretty fun seeing lots of numbers.
but when i play with other people i run physicals, and when i run physicals i want to run around and go crazy killing things without some midline telling me what to swing at or worrying about how effective the MoP will be on the current mob formation. if i ran a necro in a human group i'd definitely use the mop build and tell the warriors to f off. when necros do this to me i say ok whatever. and mobs still die.
i'm not trying to argue that orders is better and that i want one because it will kill mobs faster. i'm trying to argue why i like having an orders over an mop when i'm a physical. i usually end up just using a hero for orders anyway because it doesn't mind and there aren't any human necros. mop is definitely more efficient if you play with it in mind but pve isn't where i go to play with maximum efficiency at the expense of running around hitting things like an idiot and still winning.

tl;dr: the main point of my argument is that if the OP wants to run MoP nuker in a human team he shouldn't expect everyone one else to be his physical damage slaves unless you're in a pve-is-serious-business group so you won't get the same results as you would with heroes. it might be more fun for him in at the expense of the physicals (at least physicals the way i like to play) in the same way orders would be more fun for me at the expense of the orders. naturally i'd want the more fun orders but i don't expect humans to play it because i tell them to. crap my tl;dr was pretty long too :/