meh to much to read but my opinion is pugging killed pugging
its like random arena if your not running meta
in that EVERYONE takes a solo build, and could care less about team composition if you ask them if they can run such and such, they most likely will say sorry dont have the skills.
granted every now and then you get a perfect group, but that is very rare
in meta areas it gets even worse
you have them run a simple build, and they find some way to mess it up or act so stupidly and could end up wiping your group by pulling extra mobs despite the fact you ping aggressively on the map to tell them to back up or draw a arrow one way and they go the others.
back when guild wars had 2 districts in almost every area it got insane at points
w/mos were everywhere.. 3/4 of the warriors were w/mos.
eles taking terra tank or a variant to make sure they dont die so they could laugh at you if your group failed
sins always taking perma, or at the very least asking if they could go perma.
survivor chars carefully hiding themselves in the groups, the first chance someone dies or if their health drops below 50% they leave fasters than i can change my socks
, not even giving a pre warning saying hey im a survivor char.
then there were the leetists that would bash everyone in their group because he/she thought if there was 8 of him/her he/she would easy the mission, even though they probally sucked.
and a lot of other
that really made me Q.Q and just find guild/alliance only groups, or hero/henched it with a friend