WiK quests messing up the storyline

Ok, so I am pretty pissed off right now. So I'm just gonna write a question here.

I've been trying to get to the damn WiK quests, and I've done Asuran Allies & Ebon Vanguard Allies.

But I can't find Salma. She is not in the camp and she is not in the LA thingy. I can't even enter it anyways. The stuff has been going in not the right order, the quests. I wasn't originally going to do it. But I don't know, is there any way to just start this irritating thing over again?

Also, WHY did they not give the quests automaticly into the quest log anymore?

If you cannot enter the part of LA where Salma is you are missing something , check the wiki guide and check everything off .

Have watched all the conversations in HoM?

I figured it out. Apparantly my boyfriend was the reason salma did not pop up in the shining blade camp. For some reason when he entered with me, it was completely empty. (He has finnished WiK btw)