01 Jun 2011 at 12:07 - 2
These are the pets you can charm:
Black Bear
Melandru's Stalker
Strider
Warthog
Wolf
You cannot get ressed by a shrine in a 2 man party with one person dying. [If one person dies you can be ressed by the Resurrection Signet Skill of the other player, or you have to wait for both players to die to be resurrected at a shrine.]
I believe you can death level a pet in pre-searing, however it involves a long process. Starting with attempting to charm the animal, then letting it repeatedly kill you near a res shrine (so you can resurrect every time it kills you without having to find it again) until it is leveled up, at which point you charm it.
Hope that helps.