
1) In PVP, why do some party members resign immediately at the beginning of the match? Is there some kind of special trick that works by resigning? Like sometimes my entire team will resign and I wonder if there's something wrong with me... I'm an elementalist/monk; is that a bad combo and everyone can just tell I'm a newb or something?
2) Sometimes in the PVP arena there are flags that you have to carry to the obelisk stand, so I pick it up and try to get it there (I try to steer clear of the other team, of course) but I get yelled at by my party members and get called a "noob ele." I've seen other people from the other team carrying their flag, so what am I doing wrong?
3) I brought a monk skill with me that heals me when my allies attack, but I got yelled a lot by one team member who told me that it will heal the other team too. Is that really true? So you're not allowed to use heal skills in PVP because it heals the other team? If that's the case, all I can say is that's very confusing!
I have to say that the level of outright hostility towards new players in the game is kind of frightening, especially in PVP. ._. I understand that it must be frustrating for veterans to "put up" with new people, but I have literally been insulted and cursed at just for not understanding something. I dunno, I like this game because it's fun and has a good storyline but can't help but feel like maybe I should just stay away from PVP for good so I don't encounter such bitter people. Have to say it feels like a waste though because PVP seems to be an important part of this game.
Thanks, I would appreciate any answers!

