Although I'd suggest at least doing all the skill quests before leaving pre-searing.
And choosing your secondary only on the aspect of how quickly you can acquire it isn't exactly a great idea either imo.
In general, one can find a lot of info on the official wiki (see cosyfiep's links).
And this list in particular might be useful:
http://guildwiki.gamepedia.com/Pre-Searing_checklist
(most of the item suggestions can be safely ignored. I always get the belt pouch in pre, but that's no must.
Tapestry Shred: If you really wanna do the quest in EotN you could quickly get the Shred with another char later and then transfer it. So not an absolute priority.
Charr Bags take too long to get I'd say.
The gold you should get just from playing.
If you're a monk, just keep your starter armour as suggested - just in case)