Will my energy ever be over 30? I'm level 16 now and it is ridiculous that I only have 30 energy! With ALL the healing that is expected of me 30 is just way to low!

Do people ever listen to the Monk? Will they ever treat us better? I mean... I say I need to recharge but they still trigger the monsters, LEAP into battle and get upset when I can't heal them. Or I tell spell casters to NOT try and be a warrior and tank in the game. What do they do? They equip a sword and jump into EVERY battle! UGH! They get mad at me if I don't heal their pets, when I don't heal them constantly to keep them at 100% if they use Vampiric items that gives negative health regen, if I don't follow them away from the entire group because they want to go one on one with a monster (sorry, but I need to stay with the "group" to heal them and not a solo-person who wants to feel all big and bad), if they don't see me fight (err...I can't constantly heal if I am fighting) and if they see me get a good drop (I got a fiery dragon sword drop today and my group was livid because they thought a monk, of all things, didn't deserve such a "great" and "wonderful" drop). *sigh*
Do people lie to you as well? I go into a co-op mission town and get tons of requests to join a group. I always say I will only join if it is for the primary and bonus missions. They ALL say, "Yes we are doing both". We get into the mission and, of course, they never do the bonus. After it is done with they tell me they never wanted to do the bonus anyway but they desperately needed a monk. ARGH!!!!! I always have to go back later with henches to get the bonus.
I had so much fun playing the game with my warrior but as a monk I am seriously beginning to hate this game. I now know why there are so FEW monks in the game! Please tell me things become different for a monk! I just finished the D'elassia Seaboard mission and the scant hope that things will get better keeps me playing my monk character! If it doesn't...well, I've been wanting to try a Nec character...
Thanks in advance for any answers!
WillorWil