Well, I found out that my connectivity problems were caused by VeriZon.... but I still need more RAM for my computer.... a friend suggested newegg.com, (the same place I got my new vid card) and I found a nice 512MB set for a decent price....
BTW.... I think I am your average gamer.... those that are less than 1337, go soloing against the Charr in the Breach and then tell me if you think you should get experience for killing 2 4th level Martyrs/Overseers.... while there are 2 5th level Stalkers/ pelting you with burning penetrating arrows, and a 5th level Axe Warrior/Sword Warrior trying to cleave your head from your shoulders....
Uhh, should I get experience for slaughtering the entire Breach single-handedly??
Edit: I did get experience for a couple of 'em though.... My point here is that the sum of all the players in the above example should be more dangerous than the individual monster, therefore maybe yielding more experience??