Can't remain leader when forming group

When I form a group and accept the first person who self-invites, I always get taken into THEIR group. The only way to get them into my group is to type their name. Why does it have to be so difficult to start a group?

Because your the only 1, so your not in a 'group', if your invited, then your invited to join there team.

If you invite them, then your inviting them to join your team. Unless you already have people in your group.

So difficult? Sheesh, what the hells wrong with you? And there's nothing technically wrong with this either, so wrong forum too.

Also if they have more people in their group than you do, you will end up in their group. The person with more people in their original group remains the group leader of the merged group.