I want to let people know that it's a two way street. I've been told I am the greatest healer ever in one mission only to be turned around and told I am the worst healer ever in the next. I am pretty sure I do as well as I can under the circumstances, only letting people die when I am out of energy. The main problem is people assume a monk has unlimited energy and try to go way too fast in PUGs.
However, and here is the most interesting bit of info. Taking all henchman as a healing monk is without a doubt one of the easiest solo times in this game. I have never failed a mission with all henchman and so it goes that now when I'm not in the mood for high anxiety I will forego the incredibly frustrating experience of grouping with the so-called superior human AI.
It's sad to me that I never have a problem healing the henchies yet humans will often die under my watch. What is the problem? Who knows? I think people try to go way too fast.
Regardless, people blaming monks for when they die has got to stop. I don't purposely let you die, also when low on energy there is a precedence to who gets healed. The tank will live before the damage heavy mage. This gives me an opportunity to get us back into the fight with rezzes and such. And don't say 'heal me' everytime you get below 3/4 life...this is exceptionally annoying. Don't you think my eyes are glued to the health bars of the party? I know who needs heals and who doesn't, I am at the back watching the fight from observer mode. And for pete's sake slow down. Without energy I can't do squat.
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