Some swords require higher swordsmanship but do less dmg then other swords, is there some advantage in attacking speed that makes them better? For instance: what is the advantage of a 14-20 spatha (req. 10) over a 15-21 fellblade (req. 9)?
There is no advantage. All swords attack at the same speed, bows however are a different story. Each type having a different range, speed, and rate of fire.