I form my own groups.
I start by seeing who's LFG, and I invite them if they don't sound like jerks. You know, hysterical people yelling stuff like "LFG that is not full of idiots!1!!" Then I run around the zone inviting players of the apropriate class and level. I know that some folks with high blood pressure mind being invited out of the blue, but I'm of the opinion that you can always decline and continue minding your own business.
The quickest way to snag a LFG player is to click on their name in the chat window, so the whisper box opens up. Highlight the name by clicking on it and press ctl+c. Click on any player nearby to add an invite line to the party box. Click on the new line and ctl+v. the name gets pasted and the green add sign lights up, so press it. They're now invited w/o you having to waste time either asking where they are or finding them by holding alt. More often than not, they accept the first invite they get.
As I'm waiting for players to accept the invites I talk whith whom I have and kind of get an idea about their maturity level and teamwork potential. I'm absolutely ruthless in booting disruptive folks.
If they won't wait for the group to form, they're gone.
If they don't get with the plan, they're gone.
If they're disruptive, they're gone and put on ignore.
Using this method I've put together some great groups. Only twice have I had someone whisper me asking why I invited them. Both times I said "because I'd like you in my group" one said "Oh" and joined, the other gave me static, so I said "sorry, I won't invite you again," and that was that.
Minimum drama, maximum maturity and teamwork. A winning combo
