hm i cant quite decide

ok i finnaly made my mo/w soloer so now i will be able to afford most stuff, anyway....i cant decide if i should do a healer so i will get parties easily, but i want to unlock some new skills so im thinking about trying maybe a ele/mo or a mes/mo or something like that...any suggestions, or i want to make a character that wont rely on someone else to heal me....

If you already have a monk/war, your next class should include neither monk or warrior. You'll be kicking yourself if you end up forced to delete an rp character so you can have a slot for on the fly pvp chars.

Btw, elementalists get parties easier than monks these days (monks are getting crazy common), recommend e/mes for inspiration energy managment. Best way to avoid relying on someone to heal you is not getting hit (though mesmer has a really good self heal, ether feast heals over 100 dmg).

With all the monks running around, finding a good one is tough. To be honest, monks are getting worse, and warriors are getting better

Heh...I can attest to that. While I still encounter quite a number of W/Mo noobs...the amount if idiotic Mo/W are on the rise too. Ever saw a 105/55 monk joining a party and run to the outposts in Southern Shiverpeaks? Really frustrating (but hilarious) to see them die in one hit from an arcanist or maelstrom ice imps.

But back on topic. The OP should definately consider other classes in order to unlock skills. Most people have 3 PvE char, and 1 PvP char that can be deleted anytime. I personally have: W/Mo, E/Me, N/R. So I can create any class I want for PvP.