ele/necro

just wanting to see what yall think is the best 2ndary for a ele/necro. i am using fire for ele right now and using death for the necro but was debating on changing it. i basically want to be able to give alot of damage and not be dependant on these 2nd hand monks that are getting more common..

what class should i use for the necro and what skills on that class to accompany it..

... necro already does awesome things, i'd pick something to back up what you do, rather than something to survive.

Like n/mo to heal minions, or n/e to use awesome cursage.

my primary is elementalist 2ndary is necro. i am trying to figure out to go death, blood, or curses.

My E/N is Geomancer/(Blood/Death Magic) - I like the mass damage & armour that Earth Magic provides, and Blood Magic is great for regaining some hp and doing some extra DoT. HOWEVER, this can cause serious energy problems - and so i prefer to use Death Magic: Consume Corpse (10e, you jump to the location of a corpse, regain xx hp and xx energy) is great for getting away from large groups of enemies, restoring your energy and stuff like that. So I'd say Earth/Death or in your case Fire/Death

my friends plays defensive.
warder/weller --- cool of healing and not taking a lot of dmg
creates cozy area even though is for few secs

I have a PVP E/N who uses air + Order of the vampire

Hm...
I would go either your prefered element + curses (backing), or an Energy Storage necromancer.