Arena

Whenever I enter the arena everyone leaves, is there a way I can enter it and face someone lol? I am on cable modem but for some reason I zone very slow and experience lag. I know why they leave though, I enter in like a min 30 seconds, thats what it says on elapsed time. If someone has connections with Guild Wars GMs can you try to convince them to add 2 min waiting before the fight starts in the arena, thanks.
Edit: or like a button appears where everyone has to accept it.

Nobody has anything to say?

How much mem do u have? i.e 128 (hopefully note), 256, 512, 1g? I'm not a genius, but it could be your memory. Usually, for games like these, you want at least 512.

I have a lot of mem 18 GB 15GB not in use.
I went and tried the other day I made it in, and works pretty fine now, is it a over population thing that makes you zone in slow? I still allways zone in last when not going to arena, for some reason all my computers like to zone in slow.
Anyways there still should be like 45 second timer or 1 min timer that counts down while in arena.

There's a few types of memory in a computer, when you say 15GB free, thats hard drive space. Ram is the question, and that is listed generally in 128,256,512,1GB increments.

What kind of internet connection do you have?

And how much Ram?