ok-ok, people, lets not turn things inside out. This whole rant "zomg those noobs wouldnt take me because im open minded" is highly overrated. The open-mindness is highly overrated.
When I am looking for a group im far more conserned about idiots who advertise themselfves as having new cool builds, but in reality having not freakin clue to wth they doin, what enemies they will be facing, what is their role in the group, etc. Cookie cutter build are good because they are tested and they work. Non-cookie cutter builds are bad because there might be only 10% chance that they will perform better. And that is already given that person knows what he doing, which is rarely the case.
When I want to test build I do it with henchies or specifically ask someone to help me with it. When I join PUG I know exactly what my purpose is and how I am going to do it, as opposed to "I AM DOING DAMAGE!!!!" idiocy.
Learn the basic builds people. Just get over yourself and try it. See how much more efficient you are and only THEN try to THINK about something new. Most "open-minded" people simply skip the first step. They just assume that cookie-cutter builds are for noobs and they are soooo very different from everyone else... yeah right...
I am also upset that say eles are not accepted in SF groups, but I do know WHY. That got nothing to do with people being stupid. That got everything to do with eles utterly sucking in that area.
That is not general public's fault that curses necro is by far better damage dealer than elementalist. That is ANet's fault that there is by far more enchantment/caster hate in this game than needed, making ele viable tank only in few selected areas.
Cookie-cutter build bashing is overrated. PUG bashing is overrated. Get
[email protected] over yourself. There is no problem with people. There is a problem with ingame ballance. There is a problem with you not understanding the reason and motivation behind things.