well, i created my own guild, and few friends joined after a day or 2... well, guild became very sucessfull, with over 90 active members, a lot of team stuff, etc. i spent like 5-6 months, daily online for it. spent all money on it. didnt have time to play missions and work on titles or anything... well, after 6 months, i wanted few days break, i was really depressed of all that preasure(if u are leader, u are getting wisps all the time :S). i wanted a day or two for break, to get away from all ppl in that guild, to get some time for my self, ... i left guild for 1 day, but when i left, not many ppl was online, so i asked him to tell that to them, also added to announcements, and my co-leader changed me for this duration... after few hours i got whispers from one of the officers there, that co-leader told ppl that i left them behind, and that i joined new guild, etc. then he and some other officers told them that they are gonna make new guild, and most of ppl followed them... when i came back(after 14 hours) it was all destroyed... now im in my friends guild, and those loyal ppl from old guild also joined

i know i made mistake when i left, but most of ppl dont have any idea how is it to be a leader... and ppl really should leave in so short time