Flamed for being nice?

Moral55

Moral55

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Mar 2007

SNOW

E/Me

Ever been nice or had a perfectly fine purple or high req gold turned down
for being crap.
Despite them calling out for an hour that they wanted such an item?

slowerpoke

slowerpoke

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Jul 2007

Cuba

yup.
its hard to even give stuff away without either attracting the undeserving or the suspicious

Kha

Kha

Sins FTW!

Join Date: Mar 2005

USA

Angel Sharks [AS]

People are miserable and skeptical. You try doing something nice and you just get insulted most of the time. People aren't always specific in what they want and get grumpy that others can't read their minds - good for a laugh at least.

pumpkin pie

pumpkin pie

Furnace Stoker

Join Date: Jul 2006

behind you

bumble bee

E/

I had players running away from me when I try to give away low level greens in shing jea to low level characters, one of them even said no before I even ask cos they seen me asking someone else lol... I finally sold it for 35 to the merchant.

Kiragi Yagami

Kiragi Yagami

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Nov 2007

Elician Mercinaries [eLm] Leader.

E/Me

i certainly feel that people need to understand that standing there for 2 hours saying 'LEIK OMG WTB A FIEEERY DRAGON SWERD 200000K' and then saying 'OMFG GO AWAY NOOB' when i say "you realise its only worth like 10k, right?". another thing, when someone adds "pm offers please" at the end of a WTS message, DONT PM THEM SAYING HOW MUCH.

KANE OG

KANE OG

Banned

Join Date: Oct 2005

Ogmios Graybeards

W/

To OP: See "Good Deeds" thread and "Random Acts" thread.

This community isn't worth the spit it takes to clean them off with.

KANE

Diddy bow

Diddy bow

Furnace Stoker

Join Date: Oct 2006

Jawsome!!!!!!!!!!!

looking for one :p

A/D

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kiragi Yagami
Another thing, when someone adds "pm offers please" at the end of a WTS message, DONT PM THEM SAYING HOW MUCH.
Saying PM offers is pretty stupid, shows you dont have a clue what the item is worth, how often do you buy somthing in real life and get asked to offer, you take the base price and barter mabay but not asked to make a price yourself :S. And if somone does give them an offers 99% of the time its "lol noob, its worth way more" or somthing along those lines, the hanvn't realised yet that guild wars players are not mind readers, sadley. Although it is fun to ask how much to either A:Put them in a difficult position, thus forcing a perhaps half assed price (i am a big meanie somthimes =D) B:"Offer" C:lol learn to read". The seller really should make up the price or at least set a guideline...

On topic there are really to many ungreatful 10 yr olds in this game ¬¬. HF in real life.

Roshi_ikkyu

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Apr 2006

Mo/W

Damn I thought this was a thread where we get to flame you!! got my hopes up for nothings

sickle of carnage

sickle of carnage

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Sep 2007

Textual Harassment [kTHX]

I offered my guild leader a perf r9 stormbow for christmas since he was always saying he wanted one but couldn't afford it...I pm him telling him to come to GH and I get "Shutup I don't want a present ffs"....After telling him it was a stormbow "1 sec brt". Guess who left the guild? V_V

Zeek Aran

Zeek Aran

Forge Runner

Join Date: Aug 2006

Earth, sadly

BORK

A/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Moral55
Ever been nice or had a perfectly fine purple or high req gold turned down
for being crap.
Despite them calling out for an hour that they wanted such an item?
Pfft noob.


Kidding! =O Anyway... either it's my experience or someone else's and I just don't remember, but either I or someone else tried helping someone with a noobish build, only to be flamed. Grr.

BigDave

BigDave

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Jul 2006

Manchester, UK

The Sapphire Rose [TSR]

I used to hand out any unwanted golds/purples/greens for free in some of the newbie areas to help give the new guys a leg up. I'd get maybe 5-10 whispers all at once and obviously i can only answer one at a time. The number of times i was called a scammer, cheater, liar, etc... was unbelievable, just because i didn't reply to their message within 5 seconds. Got fed up with it after a few times so now i just put things in either a general sale here or just merch it.

As usual the few ignorant halfwits spoil it for the many good guys out there.

Oh and yes, i have had it several times when i've answered a msg in trade chat only to be turned down and called a noob or some such. Even though i rarely sell items for their full value i always seem to find those cheeky little bastards who try and haggle you so low you end up giving them gold. Can't stand em.

jezz

jezz

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Sep 2007

R/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Zeek Aran
Pfft noob.


Kidding! =O Anyway... either it's my experience or someone else's and I just don't remember, but either I or someone else tried helping someone with a noobish build, only to be flamed. Grr.
oh yeah i have had that too...very funny but got a headache from the abuse..lol
tried to tell a new mo/ra that mending wasnt any good for a healing build after copping a lot of grief i thought i would mention also that Charm Animal+Comfort Animal were also a bad choice.

ElinoraNeSangre

ElinoraNeSangre

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Mar 2006

Near Seattle, WA

Talionis De Cineris [EXUR]

N/Me

Flamed for being nice? Welcome to my family life.

Oh wait nevermind, this is about GW. There's always someone who doesn't know how to be gracious. I don't know why people don't just say "no thank you".

And yeah, I've gotten the flood of messages where people flip out that you aren't answering. Or just they open chat windows and don't bother talking to you at all.

DarkGanni

DarkGanni

Forge Runner

Join Date: Mar 2006

Malta

[CuTe]

E/

Yeah had this happening, trying to help someone and all I get is flaming, ppl and their ingratitude :@

Dante the Warlord

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Jul 2006

W/R

I always get flamed for being nice just cause some idiots think they know everything

Bekkr

Bekkr

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Feb 2006

Australia

[]

N/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Diddy bow
Saying PM offers is pretty stupid, shows you dont have a clue what the item is worth, how often do you buy somthing in real life and get asked to offer, you take the base price and barter mabay but not asked to make a price yourself :S.
So let me get this straight: anyone who doesn't know the current market prices (which fluctuate quite a lot) on a particular item isn't worthy of selling said item?

Or folks that maybe DO know the market prices and simply wish to ignore them in favor of haggling, talking to people, and coming to a mutually agreeable deal likewise don't deserve to participate in the player market?

Attitudes like yours make me laugh.

Merry Christmas.

Diddy bow

Diddy bow

Furnace Stoker

Join Date: Oct 2006

Jawsome!!!!!!!!!!!

looking for one :p

A/D

Quote:
Originally Posted by sickle of carnage
I offered my guild leader a perf r9 stormbow for christmas since he was always saying he wanted one but couldn't afford it...I pm him telling him to come to GH and I get "Shutup I don't want a present ffs"....After telling him it was a stormbow "1 sec brt". Guess who left the guild? V_V
well he sounds like a great guild leader

Quote:
Originally Posted by Bekkr
So let me get this straight: anyone who doesn't know the current market prices (which fluctuate quite a lot) on a particular item isn't worthy of selling said item?

Or folks that maybe DO know the market prices and simply wish to ignore them in favor of haggling, talking to people, and coming to a mutually agreeable deal likewise don't deserve to participate in the player market?

Attitudes like yours make me laugh.

Merry Christmas.
Nooz! My words are twisted to thier very breaking point! >.<

My attitude makes me laugh too, i just cant make up my mind. =D

Merry Christmas

Roo Ella

Roo Ella

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Jun 2007

Australia

Oz

E/R

Not anything to do with weapons but I have been flamed/sworn at and all the rest over the last few days
answering questions about Winterday stuff and wiki and where to find things ect.
Meh
Mostly i get a thanks from the people i help but sheessss if your not going to help anyone or answer questions DON'T flame people that do want to help.

"goes back to LA and sits down ...... next question"

ValaOfTheFens

ValaOfTheFens

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Sep 2006

Warrior Nation[WN]

Today I was in the Astralarium and someone was trying to sell an unid grape for 600g. I asked to see it and it was a req8 Axe with 6-24 dmg. After I told him unid grapes aren't worth anything he told me that he'd sold plenty of them before. *lol* He seemed to get the idea that I was accusing him of being a cheat but I was just letting him know. *shrug* Whatever. Would you rather have someone give you honest advice in a whisper or call you a noob in local chat?

KANE OG

KANE OG

Banned

Join Date: Oct 2005

Ogmios Graybeards

W/

........and the threads go on. Check out the wonderful community we have.

H/H FT fookin W, I guess.

KANE

reverse_oreo

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Dec 2005

Scars Meadows [SmS] Officer (not recruiting)

just about when factions came out, I did weekly item give aways in LA. I would spam free stuff at storage, and i would give you an item for whatever profession you had. I cant tell you the number of times i got someone whisper me and say...."can i have a sword instead?" or "this is what you are giving me?" Its sad really. I stopped that after the 3rd week :P

Moral55

Moral55

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Mar 2007

SNOW

E/Me

Quote:
Originally Posted by Roshi_ikkyu
Damn I thought this was a thread where we get to flame you!! got my hopes up for nothings
Aww sure you can flame me if you want.

-Loki-

-Loki-

Forge Runner

Join Date: Oct 2005

I only give stuff away to guildies and friends. If you try to give decent things to a newbie, you end up with greedy bastards just wanting to get stuff for their existing characters without paying for it, or get reported.

TheHaxor

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Mar 2007

two

W/N

Quote:
Originally Posted by Moral55
Ever been nice or had a perfectly fine purple or high req gold turned down
for being crap.
Despite them calling out for an hour that they wanted such an item?
Welcome to life. People are idiots.

Next!

Stolen Souls

Stolen Souls

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Feb 2006

Meh. Nice guys finish last anyway.

Rhedd

Rhedd

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: May 2005

You ever have to clean up after a Moa bird?

True Solunastra [SLA] Profession: Moa Wrangler

Quote:
Originally Posted by Stolen Souls
Meh. Nice guys finish last anyway.
You took time out of your Christmas Eve to post that?

I hope things get better for ya.

Stolen Souls

Stolen Souls

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Feb 2006

Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhedd
You took time out of your Christmas Eve to post that?

I hope things get better for ya.

And YOU took time out of yours to post THAT?

Likewise.

Tyla

Emo Goth Italics

Join Date: Sep 2006

unfortunately thats the world we live in...
ignorance and hate

MirageMaster

MirageMaster

Banned

Join Date: Mar 2007

EU

Ill never be nice to anyone who dosent proove that they deserve it.Just not worth it so many times.

~ Dan ~

Forge Runner

Join Date: Dec 2006

D/

Hence why i don't bother with the majority of the GW community.

Redfeather1975

Redfeather1975

Forge Runner

Join Date: Sep 2006

Apartment#306

Rhedd Asylum

Me/

I saw some people talking about people WTS and not saying an amount, but asking for offers.
They may not be intentionally doing it, but it's often a tactic used to get ignorant people who want the item to overbid. Especially if the item's price has dropped recently.
It's something the sleaziest of the sleazy used car salesmen do.
Yeah, so whether the seller is doing that on purpose or not, in that situation if you want the item, you underbid by ALOT.
Then watch the drama unfold.

Yanman.be

Yanman.be

Banned

Join Date: Dec 2005

Belgium

[ROSE]

A/

The beggars in Ascalon City don't like non-max stuff, major vigors or high req golds anymore

fRag_Doll

fRag_Doll

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Apr 2006

Australia

Prid of Ankh Morpork [Prid]

W/E

I have had people act suspicious of my motives, but I have never been flamed for being nice to someone.
No, wait. I have, but not by the person I was being nice to. It was some other dingleberry that was being an asshat to the person I was nice to.

Quote:
Originally Posted by KANE OG
To OP: See "Good Deeds" thread and "Random Acts" thread.

This community isn't worth the spit it takes to clean them off with.

KANE
Quote:
........and the threads go on. Check out the wonderful community we have.

H/H FT fookin W, I guess.

KANE
If you're not part of the solution......

721beau

Banned

Join Date: Jun 2007

australia/the chair next to the comp

Legion of Wolfsong [LOWS] aussie/kiwi guild pm meif you intested (very friendly)

D/

yeah this happens to me a lot with one of my friends

i help him with missions lent him 19k for GH

i ask for 2 mins to set builds for the missions he says "ffs take all day" after maybe 2 mins 13 secs then he just enters before i say go then he fales at me if we fail and calls me a noob

EinherjarMx

EinherjarMx

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: May 2006

Mexico

La Legion del Dragon [LD]

E/

Quote:
Originally Posted by sickle of carnage
I offered my guild leader a perf r9 stormbow for christmas since he was always saying he wanted one but couldn't afford it...I pm him telling him to come to GH and I get "Shutup I don't want a present ffs"....After telling him it was a stormbow "1 sec brt". Guess who left the guild? V_V
wow, your ex guild leader is an idiot

last week i offered some greenies and some golds to any member of my alliance and all they could do was ask for req and skin ¬¬

they were free greens and golds ffs

Nittle Grasper

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Apr 2007

E/

I showed this dude this req9 +5e +20enchants, 20/16 chaos axe I had cuz he was wielding one. He completely went nuts on me saying stuff like no one cares about your stuff your noob, it isn't enough perfect and blah blah blah. I thought he would happy that he had a person in the party that also admired chaos axes but I was wrong :S

anonymous

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Jan 2006

The merchant never flamed me for selling him stuff. There is no point in giving out crappy weapons anymore now that you can buy a max item and put perfect mods on it for 5-25k, depending on what weapon you use. Why would I want a bad item when I can get a good one just as easily? Sure it might be appriciated when you could sell max white items for 1k and good skinned whites for 5k, but those days are gone.

klrk

Academy Page

Join Date: Mar 2007

The Space Rangers

W/

I used to like giving away free dyes(except black )in LA , long before NF ,
and mostly people only need 1 or 2 and will thank me or offer me something for them. But after year 2007 , the game starting to fill with "more" kids , most of them will ask " how many you have ?" " can i have some more ,my friends need them "
and some treat me as scam( how do i scam when things are free ),and some after getting my stuff , will pm me once in a while for more dyes ( how ungrateful and greedy they are , which i'll put them in ignore list) or some after getting my stuff yelled out "lol noobs"( which i dont understand how giving free stuffs is noob ?) and bla bla bla ( it will take me forever to talk bout it )

Biostem

Biostem

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Oct 2007

People are very paranoid, and many scams start off as a "free gift" or "goodwill". Regardless, I applaud those of you who are genuinely nice, and perhaps a few more truthful experiences will help stem the tide of paranoia.

Happy holidays!

RSGashapon

RSGashapon

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Nov 2006

Sol 3

R/

I gave away some of my gold Monk items this morning. The three Monks who accepted them were quite happy to receive them.

Be honest, courteous and explain just how and why you're trading an item and you shouldn't have any problems. No shady deals, no "Ooh, can I see it outside?" tricks.