possibly the worst experience in GW, party ditching and complete rejecti on me

Dark Paladin X

Dark Paladin X

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Apr 2007

A/

I already killed the justicar and rand with h/h in my ranger character (and trust me, they did very poorly there even when I flagged them and i did the pulling). Selve, I haven't tried yet, but I was in a group for the forgeman, full human party. I was doing my job as a barrager and setting up spirits like frozen soil and winter when my party ditched me!! An ele tank blamed me saying i should have stayed back. I was letting that guy do his job, pulling the foes and having the foes attk the tank and I was attking the foes (the foes suppose to always focus on the tank). Apparently, that was the part when the party ditched me. And since H/H don't spread out when attacking (ANet did a good job making them the dumbest AI in the world), and no one was trying to pick me up for the forgeman (spend 15 minutes on finding a group and no one picked me up), I have no choice but to give up on slaver exile.

Have you ever faced a situation your entire party (or at least half of them) ditched you)? Then faced more torture when the no one picks you up for 15+ minutes even though you are fit for the job?

YunSooJin

YunSooJin

Pyromaniac

Join Date: Aug 2005

Mo/W

Ever think that maybe you're the one at fault? not the party?

oh wait no wai...

Zeek Aran

Zeek Aran

Forge Runner

Join Date: Aug 2006

Earth, sadly

BORK

A/

Something obviously went wrong. Either you didn't notice it or you won't admit it.

Cale Roughstar

Cale Roughstar

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Jan 2007

Canada

Guy In Real Life [GIRL]

W/E

Ummm, prepare you flame retardant suit?

But yes, sometimes you make a mistake when you are new to something and nobody wants to tell you HOW to do it, they just leave. Try new things with friends and guildies before you pug things would be my best advice.

Bryant Again

Bryant Again

Hall Hero

Join Date: Feb 2006

lol yeup. First time in a pug at Ice Caves of Sorrow I lead the whole team through the catapult and they all died.

Why did I do that? Because I didn't know that I had to go pull the levers and got stuck up there, and I did it every other time before with henchies, never had a problem.

garethporlest18

garethporlest18

Forge Runner

Join Date: Jan 2006

[HiDe]

W/

All I can say is, Welcome to the world of Jerkwars. This game is baed like that.

Except Korean Ryan up there he's hot.

aapo

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Apr 2006

What is the point of this topic? So you met rude person/people and you're posting about it here as if it was news?

Antheus

Forge Runner

Join Date: Jan 2006

A PUG that sucked?

Surely, you jest.

Quote:
Have you ever faced a situation your entire party (or at least half of them) ditched you)?
No.

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Then faced more torture when the no one picks you up for 15+ minutes even though you are fit for the job?
No.

vixro

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Apr 2006

Stranded Among New Players [SANP]

Mo/

Slavers? Hard?


Ursan blessing and the 3 necros makes everything easy. Screw them, you don't need them. Get the 3 necros, run ursan, and bring the 2 rangers and 2 monk hench. Essence of celerity and it's game over, don't even need frozen soil.

Fern Burntfist

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: Jan 2008

Dutch Guild Of Honor

R/P

id suggest you ask your guild if they want to help you. I did it with a full guildteam and we cleared Duncan on HM sooo many times now..

Killed u man

Forge Runner

Join Date: Feb 2006

It's a game... You'll get over your E-feelings...

Everyone has been blamed for somethin they did/did not do, but gues what, the next day, you won't even remember, and if you do, you need professional help...

roshanabey2

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: May 2007

[lion]

N/Mo

everyone gets ditched once i a while...........

maraxusofk

maraxusofk

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2005

San Francisco, UC Berkeley

International District [id多], In Soviet Russia Altar Caps You [CCCP], LOL at [eF]

W/

try going to ha or pug gvg. this happens ALOT. if u cant handle ppl being lil babies and whining about u, NEVER get into pvp. it takes many a nights worth of flaming before one gets good enuff to toss the flames back.

4thVariety

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Jun 2005

European Union

ADL

E/

Among people who are doing some high level missions over and over (Mallyx, Duncan) it is not unheard of that they kick players because some party member had a negative experience with them. These parties usually talk VERY much in the chat or have teamspeak. Generally you are fine if you can explain why you modified your build in a certain way. Quite some of these players make lists of people they played with, if they left and whether they can be trusted. Which is normal, considering the time invested in Half-Run Pugs and Full-Run Pugs. Time is spend by preparing properly before the run and then execute it properly. At no time is the speedy choice the one that is made, but in the end, that will pay off.



Other players imitate that behavior by kicking anyone who does not behave in a certain way, even though their rules are totally arbitrary and counter-productive. These players do not talk much before the mission, they do not have teamspeak, you will never be able to get a chance to justify your build-mutation and everybody seems to be under constant time pressure. Those groups would never make it anyway, so you can consider it a blessing being kicked from them. gogogogo

Skyy High

Skyy High

Furnace Stoker

Join Date: May 2006

R/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Sol Deathgard
Spoken like someone that has no ability to create a worthwhile build on his own, gg.
Trust me when I say, you are not a unique snowflake. No build you've ever run has ever been unique and new. Using stuff that works and works well, as opposed to bashing your head into the same problem 10 times over, is perfectly fine. (Though the use of Ursan gets my eyebrow raised, it's one copy of the thing, which isn't ursan-way).

enmitee

enmitee

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Nov 2007

[Liar]

Rt/R

Quote:
Originally Posted by Sol Deathgard
Spoken like someone that has no ability to create a worthwhile build on his own, gg.
ok ursan ftw tho

Dronte

Dronte

Grotto Attendant

Join Date: Sep 2006

Quote:
Originally Posted by maraxusofk
try going to ha or pug gvg. this happens ALOT. if u cant handle ppl being lil babies and whining about u, NEVER get into pvp. it takes many a nights worth of flaming before one gets good enuff to toss the flames back.
I agree with that. And its hella fun ^^

Back to topic, ever thought that you actually made a mistake?

Squishy ftw

Squishy ftw

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2007

Your backline

W/

Are you sure you didn't mess up somewhere?

If you're sure you didn't, consider it their loss and move on

Quote:
Originally Posted by Dark Paladin X

Have you ever faced a situation your entire party (or at least half of them) ditched you)? Then faced more torture when the no one picks you up for 15+ minutes even though you are fit for the job?
No.

Never. If I can't get in a PuG in 15min I grab hero/hench..

Mark Nevermiss

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Jul 2006

Even if you were the best player out there and knew all Slaver's Exile dungeons like the back of your hand, to think that waiting 15 minutes is long is ..well, laughable. I have been in groups that waited for like 2 hours to get one person.

When I cannot get into a certain group at a certain time I normally switch to another char and do something else, unless I know I can hero/hench it.

I doubt YOU will be able to H/H Forge or Selve, so I think your best bet is to try to figure out what could have gone wrong and try to fix it.

Also something I find worth mentioning .. unless you are doing SE for the dungeon book, its no BIG loss to pass on it. Unless you get EXTREMELY lucky and get one of the few rare highly coveted items, the time spent at SE could be more profitably spent elsewhere.

My opinion.

Darkobra

Darkobra

Forge Runner

Join Date: Aug 2006

Scotland

Type like an idiot, I'll treat you like an idiot

E/Me

Quote:
Originally Posted by aapo
So you met rude person/people and you're posting about it here as if it was news?
Can I point out this one, or is it someone else's turn?

Oukanna

Oukanna

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Apr 2007

Ancient Shaolin Guardians

E/D

Being ditched is a part of gaming, anywhere id say :-(

You just got to get over it and move on.

I have started doing HA, and wow you need patience for that, it can take me up to 40mins to get a team and even then they are never good because i am only rank 1 and people who are of higher rank dont want to take me because they think i cant play! I hate that ignorance but if i want to get anywhere i got to be patient and let it pass.

I can understand why, if people do the same thing over and over to farm, and they pick up someone who hasnt done it like they have, it slows them down and frustrates them, just as they frustrate you, they dont want to waste time, so they leave to get a better group.

Yes it may be rude, but thats how it goes, your best bet is to practice or go with friends.

FeroxC

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Mar 2006

EOA

P/W

I remember back in the good ole days of FoW farming, a whammo in our group had a shard drop and died strait after. We purposely didn't res and eventually took his shard then carried on with the mission leaving him dead.

Danax

Danax

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Jun 2007

Ontario

R/Mo

Quote:
Originally Posted by FeroxC
I remember back in the good ole days of FoW farming, a whammo in our group had a shard drop and died strait after. We purposely didn't res and eventually took his shard then carried on with the mission leaving him dead.
Evil. Morally Wrong.

Kusandaa

Kusandaa

Forge Runner

Join Date: Jul 2006

N/Mo

I had something happening to me in a similar way - playing monk for a 444 run when I had no idea I had to res the necro through the portal. Asking questions to see if I had to take any skill, if my bar could be modded and if I had to do anything specific... never got a reply. Never found the info on the net either. In one of those groups I joined, I went in my room straight away and I bet more than half of the party left even though I asked if I had any specific role to play (which doesn't take 20 minutes to explain that you gotta res the necro through the portal).

Yes I didn't know, but I did make the effort of asking and trying to find the information which was, at the time, unavailable. Therefore, when I do something wrong, I'd like to know it... because sometimes I don't/can't even realize it.

Oh BTW I've waited 1.5 to 2 hours for people for Urgoz, and I bet people have waited even longer. So 15 minutes is nothing.

angmar_nite

angmar_nite

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Feb 2007

[SNOW] of [YUM]

E/

Just saying...... Isn't the Obby tank the puller? In all my groups he is.

Mark Nevermiss

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Jul 2006

Quote:
Originally Posted by angmar_nite
Just saying...... Isn't the Obby tank the puller? In all my groups he is.
Yep, the ranger meanwhile finds a nice spot to make his spirit(s) and waits patiently with the nukers till the tank has aggroed and slowed the monsters with something like grasping earth or ward against foes.

angmar_nite

angmar_nite

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Feb 2007

[SNOW] of [YUM]

E/

Wait misread. NVM. Did you have a flatbow or longbow to stay outside aggro? Otherwise yeah, it's just the group being a dick.

Dark Paladin X

Dark Paladin X

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Apr 2007

A/

i actually did use a longbow, the problem is that I notice my entire didn't went out and help the tank and the tank rage leave. I doubt heroes and hench work there, as heroes have hard time syngerying their skills.

Whisper Evenstar

Whisper Evenstar

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Sep 2006

NYC

Governors Of Destruction [GOD]

E/

Listen, I'm not trying to be elitist, but I H/H all of the dungeons in Slavers, including Duncan right after I finished EOTN some months ago. It is doable - you just have to set up your team properly and know how to pull and prioritize targets (I never flagged all heros individually). Now, a good PUG will breeze through much faster and can be a lot more fun, but we all know how common good PUGs are....

I suggest you spend some time learning how to do it yourself - you will probably learn a lot in the process of figuring out what works and what doesn't. And that will pay off in everything you do in the game

MithranArkanere

MithranArkanere

Underworld Spelunker

Join Date: Nov 2006

wikipedia.org/wiki/Vigo

Heraldos de la Llama Oscura [HLO]

E/

Never.

If someone don't want me in their party, it's because they are either bad players or because they only use cookie cutter builds and kick anyone that do not join with the build they want ready.

If someone wants me to use a certain build I don't know, they have to give me the template. If they don't, they should let me use the build I think it would be better based upon other party members builds and the enemies we are going to face. Something not everyone understands...

I have all skills but some Paragon, Assasin and Dervish ones with my main character, so I can set even the weirdest builds.


With my monk, I'm specially touchy. I'm not the one kicked, I'm the one that /sit and watch people die if they do not play properly or make me mad.
For example, once I joined a PUG in Raisu Palace as WoH healer, I asked if someone was bringig enchantmenr removal, and warned the protector and the warrior about the sliver armor.

What they did? The one with the enchant removal focused on the Shiro'ken monks, to remove the Spell Breaker. ANYONE that knows the Shiro'ken builds knows that they are not healers, they are protectors, and not a very good ones, they only use the Spell Breaker on themselves. They are not a threat. Nor something to kill first. The warrior focused in the Elementalists with sliver armor, and the protector was healing the Necromancer instead of buffing the tank to reduce damage.
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When the warrior died after using again and again wis tripple and wirlwind axe skills against 3 Shio'ken elementalists, while the elementalsit was using various multi-hit spells at the same time, he blamed me of letting him die.

Indignant, I just ignored the criticisms, and then I /sit and went to my kitchen to pick something to drink. When I was back, they were still fighting, and they didn't even noticed I was not healing anymore. Of course, I just left after that.

I never met a worse pug in my entire life, and never had to quit like that again, and, geez, I hope never get into a pug like that again.

IlikeGW

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Aug 2005

Maybe you made a mistake or maybe you didn't. The game community can be filled with idiots who may well have screwed it up themselves and blamed other people, knowingly or not.

Move on anyway, it happens, the internet is anonymous and full of rudeness, including team kicks with little explanation or chance to defend yourself.

Kattar

Kattar

EXCESSIVE FLUTTERCUSSING

Join Date: Mar 2007

SMS (lolgw2placeholder)

Me/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Dark Paladin X
Have you ever faced a situation your entire party (or at least half of them) ditched you)?
Ever played a mesmer in a PuG?

PL: Hey mesmer, ping your bar.
*Pings bar*
PL kicks.

Welcome to Guild Wars.

Darkobra

Darkobra

Forge Runner

Join Date: Aug 2006

Scotland

Type like an idiot, I'll treat you like an idiot

E/Me

Well, Raisu palace brings the worst of the worst. It's Faction's version of THK. Then again, quite recently, I saw a monk in beginner's armour, only healing prayers, (if you're going to rush in with beginner's armour, have the decency to go Protection prayers) and a pet with a res skill for it. Sparks of the Titans one hit killed her repeatedly. God knows why she had two superior runes and no vigors to counter that, either.

sterbenx2

sterbenx2

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Jul 2007

New England

Lunatic Legion

N/

two sup runes and starter armor? omg. How in the hell would someone even GET to RP with that?! Impossible I say! lol but the only kick I've ever had that actually pissed me off was a team that kicked me for not running a particular cookie cutter they wanted without even asking me if I could change. Which, I would have just to shut the wanks up. The build ping crap ALSO killed Pugs.. most people blame heroes. I think it was everything at once.

With the way GW is played, PuGs will always suck. The only way to make PuGs viable is to dumb down the game to a point where you can do anything with empty skillbars. And judging by what I see in most random players builds, they should be running with just that, an empty bar. (and a rez) =P

pygar

pygar

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Dec 2007

KORM

R/Mo

I havent had experience quite as bad as the OP's, but then again it's because I had experiences similar the couple times I tried to join PUGs and quickly decided it was Heroes and Henchies FTW.

You can't fire me cuz I quit

lakatz

lakatz

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Jun 2006

Quote:
Originally Posted by Mark Nevermiss
Even if you were the best player out there and knew all Slaver's Exile dungeons like the back of your hand, to think that waiting 15 minutes is long is ..well, laughable. I have been in groups that waited for like 2 hours to get one person.
And you don't think wasting... errr waiting two hours for something so unproductive as playing through in a game is laughable?

Quote:
I doubt YOU will be able to H/H Forge or Selve, so I think your best bet is to try to figure out what could have gone wrong and try to fix it.
If he can't H/H Forge and Selve, I'll be happy to show him how. I found them a bit of a challenge but quite doable in one try... and I'm a casual player.

Fil Arun

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: Jan 2008

The Gear Trick

E/Me

Quote:
Originally Posted by lakatz
And you don't think wasting... errr waiting two hours for something so unproductive as playing through in a game is laughable?
His point was "15 minutes isn't long by a lot of people's standards", not "I waited 2 hours frothing at the keyboard waiting for the INSTANT someone showed up!" I've done it in WoW before, I sat there chatting and watching TV for an hour and a half before the group started on one of my days off.

Olim Chill

Olim Chill

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Oct 2007

USA

DMI

N/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Darkobra
Sparks of the Titans one hit killed her repeatedly. God knows why she had two superior runes and no vigors to counter that, either.
Quote:
Originally Posted by sterbenx2
two sup runes and starter armor? omg. How in the hell would someone even GET to RP with that?!
If Sparks of the Titans got her, it wasn't in RP. Still, she had no business playing the endgame of Prophecies with that set.

Chthon

Grotto Attendant

Join Date: Apr 2007

OP, my guess is that you started firing before the tank had the monsters rounded up and snared and that caused a broken aggro, which pissed everyone off. It could be that you broke the aggro, or it could be that the tank pulled wrong and it was going to break anyway. If you try again, the best thing you can do is make damn sure not to attack until the tank calls grasping earth/ward against foes -- that way you can be sure you're not the one causing any aggro breaks that happen.

truemyths

truemyths

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Jan 2007

yes there's a lack of helpful and friendly people. See the responses on this thread as proof.