Egotistical

StormDragonZ

StormDragonZ

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Jan 2008

New York

W/R

Many has seen it. Many has endured it. If you haven't, you either just started playing Guild Wars or you do everything with hero/henchmen, but it is simple.

People who think they're better than you, and "nicely" inform you how to play the game, beat a mission/dungeon, or just flat out want to ruin your experience playing the game.

So I ask: How do YOU deal with these kind of people?

lacasner

lacasner

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Jun 2006

everything except guild and alliance chat = off.

solved.

Hou Lifu

Hou Lifu

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Oct 2006

The Modus Operandi [MO]

I insult them with equally condescending and demeaning remarks!

DarkWasp

DarkWasp

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Mar 2005

Paradise

Agency Of Forbidden Fruits [Oot]

R/A

Laugh at em when they die.

??? L??wLi????????? ???

??? L??wLi????????? ???

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Oct 2007

Dela-where?

Demonic Rage [dr]

E/

Quote:
Originally Posted by lacasner
everything except guild and alliance chat = off.

solved.
/agree

12 char

1 up and 2 down

1 up and 2 down

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Mar 2007

Rt/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Hou Lifu
I insult them with equally condescending and demeaning remarks!
Thats what I do.

I pwnd U

I pwnd U

God of Spammers

Join Date: Oct 2005

in the middle of a burning cornfield...

Scars Meadows [SMS] (Officer)

Quote:
Originally Posted by lacasner
everything except guild and alliance chat = off.

solved.

Much better solution then responding with equally immature insults.

Malice Black

Site Legend

Join Date: Oct 2005

Some people do suck though, nothing wrong with offering them some advice.

cosyfiep

cosyfiep

are we there yet?

Join Date: Dec 2005

in a land far far away

guild? I am supposed to have a guild?

Rt/

ignore them, if they die, dont rez them....if the party wipes blame them.....
otherwise just dont party with them to begin with (you can get some idea about a pug when you join them, unless you are the last monk added---)

Kook~NBK~

Grotto Attendant

Join Date: Mar 2005

A little chalet outside Drok's

Natural Born Killaz

I just develope a low opinion of the person, finish whatever it is we're doing, and leave the party when done. For egomaniacs in town, Ignore list is where they end up.

I won't turn off local chat because of some of things that get said in local. That's letting the jerks win. I use the ignore list for potty-mouths and other such annoying people that happen to be in the same place I am. It starts getting full, I clean it out.

lakatz

lakatz

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Jun 2006

Quote:
Originally Posted by lacasner
everything except guild and alliance chat = off.

solved.
I nominate this best post of the day.

KingKryton

KingKryton

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Jun 2005

New Zealand

W/Mo

try and piss them off. yesterday in the CoF had someone telling me how to use LoD, because he knew where they all where so us "others" didnt need to use it lol

I MP I

I MP I

Hustler

Join Date: Nov 2006

in between GW2 servers

Mo/

I make them cry/rage the game. Especially if we're chatting/cursing at each other in vent.

Diddy bow

Diddy bow

Furnace Stoker

Join Date: Oct 2006

Jawsome!!!!!!!!!!!

looking for one :p

A/D

I ignore them, but eventually after seeing so many mending wammos, fire storm rangerg, MM eles and hammer monks. You become one such person ^^.

Mortal Amongst Mere Gods

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Oct 2007

Riding the spiral

W/

Actually, no one treats me like that. I've been playing since summer 2005, don't need much advice.

I actually flaunt my knowledge of the game sometimes (though not rudely) and tell people what I think of their build/strategy. That's not to say I'm some sort of lifeless uber-1337 guy that knows the game inside, around, and outside, though. I'm not perfect, just good.

djm1ller

Pre-Searing Cadet

Join Date: Jan 2008

Sigma Elites

Rt/R

Meh, I tend to best them on an intellectual level and confuse them...
If in their party... Try to get them killed...
If in their guild... leave guild...
If retorts dont work or they are just dense... ignore...
All else fails? Report to PlayNC for spamming and harrassment.

4 strikes your out.

Kusandaa

Kusandaa

Forge Runner

Join Date: Jul 2006

N/Mo

Quote:
Originally Posted by I MP I
I make them cry/rage the game. Especially if we're chatting/cursing at each other in vent.
Roughly the same. I let people spam-PM me until they get tired (makes them so mad to know you're not frustrated, lol) and I don't heal whoever doesn't follow directions if needed, or whines/complains/verbal abuse the others too much. I'd rather have my party missing one member than having one that keeps whining or insulting other people.

KamikazeChicken

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2005

Mo/

There's always the person who think she's better than everyone, but there's also the person who sucks ass and looks at genuine help as being condescending.

If you don't want to deal with it, don't PUG.

Aera Lure

Aera Lure

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2005

In Baltar's head

Bring Out Your Dead [BOYD], former officer [LBS]

Mo/

Generally, I simply roll with it, since they are presumably the party leader. As long as they arent outright rude, I let them organize it the way they want, since I'm willing to try any reasonable approach. I'll coordinate with the other monk to figure out our builds and let the rest fall as it may. There's a fine line between egotistical and outright being rude.

Half the problem in PUGs is people not willing to set aside their egos. There's always more than one way to tackle a mission or an area. Most PUGs fail when others in the party refuse to work with the leader etc and actually try it their way. Granted, if the player organizing the party is over the top in terms of rudeness, and the other monk is refusing to ping their build so I can compliment them in terms of how to set my build up, its usually a good sign to politely bow out before the party enters the area. Find another.

I almost always have a good PUG experience when I PUG. The key is being open to input from other players, despite your also knowing well enough how you'd approach the problem, and then using your experience to work with it. Just avoid the excessively rude leaders and parties where arguments start even before you leave. There will always be someone with a high ego, but just let it go most times.

Songbringer

Songbringer

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2007

EastCoast

E/Me

Quote:
Originally Posted by lacasner
everything except guild and alliance chat = off.

solved.

doesn't help when they invade your guild and alliance. T_T My guildless ass has everything turned off except local and I'm only in towns about 3% of the time I play and they are usually pretty dead

Darkobra

Darkobra

Forge Runner

Join Date: Aug 2006

Scotland

Type like an idiot, I'll treat you like an idiot

E/Me

It depends how they offer advice. I could have just abused the mentality of the mending paragon I saw last night... or the fact that a dervish refused to use Junundu Wail when they had 100 health after I explained what it did and how to use it... or the assassin who charged into the sulfurus wastes without being in a Junundu.... or....

Pyro maniac

Pyro maniac

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Apr 2006

they're sometimes right tho
Alot of people fail at the game and there's nothing wrong with telling them how they could play better.
Some smartasses like to flame everyone who is 'dumber then them', while they are just copying pvx builds themselves. Ignore them

mr_groovy

mr_groovy

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Jun 2006

Netherlands

No Inherent Effect [NiE]

Create Threads much? >.>

I am that person, I'll tell you what to bring, what to do, when to breath & when not to. And if you don't want to hear that, you can take another pug and fail.

Seriously though, when pugging you need 1 that acts like a leader. Calls targets, shows you where to go, and what aprox build to take. That's why I Love my hero's they allways take orders (most of the times anyways ^^).

Longasc

Longasc

Forge Runner

Join Date: May 2005

I usually start a thread on forums about this hellish injustice and slit my wrists in despair!

I hardly PUG, and my alliance is used to me going nuts occasionally. :>

Adam144

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Aug 2007

Castleford, England

None

E/

I usually avoid posting on Guild Wars Guru forums, where many of these egotistical players like to scream "OMG N00B USE THE S34RCH FUNCTI0N!!~" or "u r stupid /thread" to ANY of your suggestions/ideas.

Selket

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Aug 2005

Grand Court of Selket/Sebelkeh

What If You Had An Outpost Named After You [slkt]

W/

Since I'm better than everybody, I've never encountered this.

Looks like people know better than to tell me how2play.

[Morkai]

[Morkai]

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Oct 2007

Heroes of Elonia [HE]

W/Rt

Quote:
Originally Posted by mr_groovy
Create Threads much? >.>

I am that person, I'll tell you what to bring, what to do, when to breath & when not to. And if you don't want to hear that, you can take another pug and fail.

Seriously though, when pugging you need 1 that acts like a leader. Calls targets, shows you where to go, and what aprox build to take. That's why I Love my hero's they allways take orders (most of the times anyways ^^).
I agree, a leader figure is needed..though would be nice if people did it in a nice way. Most PUG's fail right at the end anyways because they don't listen and for EG they attack Shiro before i hit Wild Blow (......)

But overall i do agree with Groovy here.

aapo

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Apr 2006

Quote:
Originally Posted by StormDragonZ
People who think they're better than you, and "nicely" inform you how to play the game, beat a mission/dungeon, or just flat out want to ruin your experience playing the game.
- Haha, what fools. Everyone knows that you *are* the best player in Guild Wars and there's nothing other people can teach to you.

Sujoy

Sujoy

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Sep 2006

In Livia's Cleavage (.)ME(.)

The Early Monk Heals The Worm [EMHW]

Mo/

it aint their fault if you fail at the game... stop echo mending!

MercenaryKnight

MercenaryKnight

Forge Runner

Join Date: May 2006

Wolf of Shadows [WoS]

P/

I have seen plenty of bad players, the worst part is when they bring heroes and you think ok that'll be good.

Until you see their mo/n has like 2 heals, heal other and heal party. Along with Offering of Blood and some blood attacks.

Usually I just go back to town and leave them there. If I am in a nice mood I will offer advice but usually you just ignore them.

RavagerOfDreams

RavagerOfDreams

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Dec 2007

somewhere over the rainbow....

A/

i love to flame people it's like my calling in life ^_^

Brian the Gladiator

Brian the Gladiator

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: May 2006

Michigan, USA

Us Are Not [leet]

E/

I'm probably one of those "egotistical" people you are talking about. With that said, the only reason why I may act egotistical with you is because you are arguing with me when I am far superior to you. If you just do what I say without arguing through your ignorance than my condescending comments would be avoided.

Basically what I am trying to say is, if you stop being bad, you no longer have to deal with egotistical people, because you are better than them and they will either be forced to put up or shut up.

holababe

holababe

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Dec 2006

Goon Squad [LLJK]

Mo/

I've never really had a bad experience with that sort of player.
But I'd just set them to ignore and as soon as we got back to town, bail.

Rhedd

Rhedd

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: May 2005

You ever have to clean up after a Moa bird?

True Solunastra [SLA] Profession: Moa Wrangler

Quote:
Originally Posted by RavagerOfDreams
i love to flame people it's like my calling in life ^_^
How nice for you. Your parents must be very proud.

Threads like this, and people still wonder why Anet gave us heroes.

RhanoctJocosa

RhanoctJocosa

Legendary Korean

Join Date: Aug 2006

The Benecia Renovatio [RenO]

W/

sorry i'm better than you

MithranArkanere

MithranArkanere

Underworld Spelunker

Join Date: Nov 2006

wikipedia.org/wiki/Vigo

Heraldos de la Llama Oscura [HLO]

E/

I ignore them.
If they ask me to change builds, I change them, ping them, and go back to the build I want.

At all times my build works better than the stupid things they pretend me to use.

Then they never notice, because my builds are better than the ones they gave me, XD.
Sometimes, after that, they tell me 'Told you mine was better'.
I don't know why they get so angry when I ping my build then, XD.

Hey, if the monster dies in 3 seconds and after than I keep 95% energy, who cares which build I used?

Bryant Again

Bryant Again

Hall Hero

Join Date: Feb 2006

I play in the Asian or Int. districts. Problem solved!

Gambit Shinobi

Gambit Shinobi

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Nov 2007

Heroes Alliance

A/D

3 options in dealing with egotistical people in-game:

1. Don't PUG
2. Ignore
3. Leave Party



1 option in dealing with egotistical posters (usually PvP jackasses who hate on PvErs) on guru:

Flame them.

Edge Martinez

Edge Martinez

Jungle Guide

Join Date: May 2005

NC

DKL

Quote:
Originally Posted by Gambit Shinobi
3 options in dealing with egotistical people in-game:

1. Don't PUG
2. Ignore
3. Leave Party
You forgot my favorite one,

4. Screw with 'em.

When I get guys who like to be the law, I just willfully comply, and then in mission I'll make all the 'mistakes'. Usually sends them into 'u noob' fits. Of course I'll just start berating their leadership in CAPS. Good times

william1975

william1975

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Aug 2006

Scotland

Dragons of Torment (DOA)

Me/

th op answered this for me, I play with H/H, unless its my wife I'm playing with in PVE anyway.

I ginore the other areas that require other players