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Akeido

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: Nov 2008

This is my first MMORPG, and to tell you the truth it's pretty disappointing.

No, not the game...the community. I like to mix it up between PvE and PvP. I like PvE because I can do it mostly solo, but PvP comes as more of a challenge for me.

Recently I've been doing the snowball arena and some Random Arena PvP. I play a monk on both sides and no matter what I do, people are arrogant and disrespectful to everyone. If someone on my team dies in PvP, it's my fault. If our team loses the snowball arena, everyone cusses at eachother.

Now I have no basis for comparison, but is this the way all MMORPGs are?

shoyon456

shoyon456

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Jul 2006

D/

People get this way around snowball arenas, there are many ppl in there trying to grind for the gamer title who know what they're doing. Then there are ppl on their team that may be new at snowball arena who they feel caused the team to loose.

You don't get anything for loosing in snowball arena, no gamer pts, no cc shards. It's not surprising they get upset. I know I did when I was trying to get to r3 gamer and Id have ppl who would attack someone on the other team who wasnt holding a present.

Point is, most ppl in snowball arena aren't there to have fun, they're there to win.

Tyla

Emo Goth Italics

Join Date: Sep 2006

I've got the perfect answer! Activate a defensive prayer! Oh wait, that's RuneScape.

moriz

moriz

??ber t??k-n??sh'??n

Join Date: Jan 2006

Canada

R/

this is the way most popular online games are. you can't ever escape rude people.

Akeido

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: Nov 2008

Quote:
Originally Posted by moriz View Post
this is the way most popular online games are. you can't ever escape rude people.

Coulda figured, i guess.

Abedeus

Abedeus

Grotto Attendant

Join Date: Jan 2007

Niflheim

R/

I see you probably have never played online games at all. Otherwise you would've know everything about jerks of my type.

It's much worse in WoW or CSS, though.

lemming

lemming

The Hotshot

Join Date: May 2006

Honolulu

International District [id???]

People are dumb.

This goes for every game out there.

bhavv

bhavv

Furnace Stoker

Join Date: Sep 2006

Ignore people who take random PVP seriously and try laughing at them. Its funny when people think they know everything, but they are playing in random teams and expecting to win all the time.

IlikeGW

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Aug 2005

It's a frustrating game for PVP. Either you're going to win or you're going to lose embarrassingly most of the time. There's almost never middle ground because you go in with your skills stuck on what they are and know what's going to happen in about 10 seconds when you see the other team. If the build situation is bad this means you pretty much have to try for nothing while the other team still dances on your corpses.

Oddly enough they even kept the frustration in snowball arena by imbalancing the sides. It's definitely frustrating to get your ass kicked by a good dwayna team knowing what a huge advantage they have. (Not saying they're not beatable, just exactly what I said, a GOOD dwayna team.)

crazybanshee

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Jun 2006

Look out!

E/

People will be childish. I've played other MMORPG's and that's just the way it is. Generally speaking, 80% of the community is nice and supportive. However, the ones you notice most are the obnoxious asshats that curse and demean everyone. Just be thankful that you don't have to deal with those people in real life.

Pony Slaystation

Pony Slaystation

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Nov 2008

Cardboard Box

Guilds are irrelevant. This... is...... BUILD WARS!!!

Rt/

/agree

I generally hate most of the Guild Wars community, which is why I try to avoid PvP, and only do PvE either solo, or with my friends.

For example, people absolutely FREAK OUT in Alliance Battles when you are losing by more than 25 points. People take the game too seriously, and because of that, they don't realize how rude they are.

P A L P H R A M O N D

P A L P H R A M O N D

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Nov 2006

Washington, D.C.

Me/

It also looks like you just started GW, in which case you would have been starting over three years into the game's existence. In that time, the people who made the game fun when it first came out have since a) stopped playing, or b) associate only with their guild.

The community has changed a lot in the past three years.

And besides, no matter what game you play, if someone dies, its always the monk / druid / shaman's fault :-)

Konig Des Todes

Konig Des Todes

Ooo, pretty flower

Join Date: Jan 2008

Citadel of the Decayed

The Archivists' Sanctum [Lore]

N/

Average Nice Person+Anonymity=Total Douche

Sad but true. This is why I avoid PvP, 90% of them are douches. PvE, only ~75% is, and I can solo that.

Malice Black

Site Legend

Join Date: Oct 2005

GW has gone downhill over the years, but that happens with every online game. It's easy enough to avoid the kids and ego driven idiots. Find a good active guild, and build yourself a good friends list with varying degrees of 'skill'.

jiggles

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Sep 2007

N/

i play this game to win at shit. Not have nubs who think theyre the one try and prove me wrong. I goto the snowball arena hoping that people have a slight idea of how to play so that way i can carry the team. Not people take presents to the wrong avatar and then call everyone else a noob.

And in pvp monks are the most demanding proffession. It is your JOB to keep people alive, it says so in the manual. Just going to add, people who overextend can be ignored. As will their general ignorance regarding doing something wrong. Dont be shit at something and then expect everyone to give you an easy ride. Just reading your post its rather obvious this is your first mmorpg else you wouldve stfu and stop crying by now.

If your expecting everyone to be really nice and wondering why people are so mean, you should go away.

isamu kurosawa

isamu kurosawa

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Nov 2005

United Kingdom

Me/

Welcome to the internet.

People suck.

Ghost Dog

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Mar 2008

W/

Quote:
Originally Posted by jiggles View Post
i play this game to win at shit. Not have nubs who think theyre the one try and prove me wrong. I goto the snowball arena hoping that people have a slight idea of how to play so that way i can carry the team. Not people take presents to the wrong avatar and then call everyone else a noob.

And in pvp monks are the most demanding proffession. It is your JOB to keep people alive, it says so in the manual. Just going to add, people who overextend can be ignored. As will their general ignorance regarding doing something wrong. Dont be shit at something and then expect everyone to give you an easy ride. Just reading your post its rather obvious this is your first mmorpg else you wouldve stfu and stop crying by now.

If your expecting everyone to be really nice and wondering why people are so mean, you should go away.
So people aren't allowed to learn then, and I'm sure you hopped into the arenas first time and aced it no doubt.

@OP:This is the type of person to expect, anything better is reason to celebrate.I laugh when I play arenas late late at night because all of these kids (I could care less about their numerical age) are asleep and it's actually fun.

So when people like this do try to rage you just remember, it's past their naptime and their getting fussy for their blankie.Oh and they can't act tough in real life so they do it here, simple as that.

Malice Black

Site Legend

Join Date: Oct 2005

People raging at you in the snowball arenas is the best bit. Go for the LOLs and you'll have a blast.

I did it last year in full FoW style. Decked out FoW, nice expensive items etc then played like a 1st day nub. The amount of abusive was tear jerking

jiggles

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Sep 2007

N/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Ghost Dog View Post
So people aren't allowed to learn then, and I'm sure you hopped into the arenas first time and aced it no doubt.
Not really, i didnt try the hardest proffession which is obviously monking until i had a good amount of pvp experience.
Quote:
.Oh and they can't act tough in real life so they do it here, simple as that.
Oh the irony.

Wild Karrde

Wild Karrde

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Sep 2006

W/

Quote:
Originally Posted by jiggles View Post
i play this game to win at shit. Not have nubs who think theyre the one try and prove me wrong. I goto the snowball arena hoping that people have a slight idea of how to play so that way i can carry the team. Not people take presents to the wrong avatar and then call everyone else a noob.

And in pvp monks are the most demanding proffession. It is your JOB to keep people alive, it says so in the manual. Just going to add, people who overextend can be ignored. As will their general ignorance regarding doing something wrong. Dont be shit at something and then expect everyone to give you an easy ride. Just reading your post its rather obvious this is your first mmorpg else you wouldve stfu and stop crying by now.

If your expecting everyone to be really nice and wondering why people are so mean, you should go away.
@OP Best thing to do is probably ignore people like ^ this. What they dont realize is even though they think they just put the smack down on someone they are just making themselves look foolish and stupid. You respond like they do and then you look just as dumb.

kagenuma

kagenuma

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Mar 2007

here. And i SPeak ENgRISH OnLY!

ign:Apocrypha of Yzarc

W/

just dont take ppl too serious, there will always be someone screaming "noob" and making you to feel like the worse player... if you let them. Ill call you idiot if you refuse to learn or accept own mistakes,thinking you know all. But as one wise person said: next time you get angry on someone, dont call them noob but neophyte and check their reaction o_O

Thou i agree with the main problem of pvp community - everyone expect others to be the top players, not thinking..hey..maybe...but really maybe...this guy is here for the first time..lets give him a hand.
..and really, gw has the less rude ppl out of all online games ive tried so far.Funny aint it? cheers~

Codin The Great

Codin The Great

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Jul 2008

You will never know!!!!

Guardians of Hades [GoH]

W/E

Online games in pvp are ment for people to challenge each other. So mainly everyone is competitive when it comes to pvp.

pumpkin pie

pumpkin pie

Furnace Stoker

Join Date: Jul 2006

behind you

bumble bee

E/

Its not only the GW community, its how human works, blaming other people is alway the first priority in human nature because its the thing that most poeple see first, other's fault, we'd be lucky if its the other way around.

Advise: all chat windows off if you want to RA.

Clarissa F

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Nov 2007

Fighters of the Shiverpeaks

Me/Mo

That's what's frustrating about MMO's: they're an open community. Like in the real world, you have to deal with all sorts of people. Join a good guild. They will be your friends and coworkers in the game. You meet some people who are dicks, and some who will be there for you in a pinch. Stick with your guild and friend's list, and keep the team chat off when you are doing RA. You'll have more fun.

Or just be a mesmer. We love making others cry, and look sexy doing it. Being a good Monk in PvP is no easy task. Those who are, you'll know by name. I'd just rather cast hexes, interrupts, and sigs, and make the other side look like Jerry's kids. That's fun to watch.

Oh, and I nearly pissed myself reading that, Forgotten200! Really, Ghost Dawg, yo be takin' dis sheezy too cereal, yo.

Eddie Frenzy Spam

Eddie Frenzy Spam

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Jul 2007

Old N Dirty [ym]

W/E

Quote:
Originally Posted by bhavv View Post
Ignore people who take random PVP seriously and try laughing at them. Its funny when people think they know everything, but they are playing in random teams and expecting to win all the time.
You see the basis of your post there is fundamentaly flawed. Yes it is random but if the players on your side of the team played to a competent skill level you CAN expect to win, unless of course you don't get some sort of healer in your team then 90% of the time you won't expect to win.

The fact that the teams are random is no excuse to be bad. People want to win games, no matter what they play (HA, GvG, TA, RA, hell, even PvE) because losing is not fun, so the arguement "i'm having fun, I don't care if i'm bad" doesn't really apply either. Being good is not mutally exclusive with having fun.

When you're not a good player, yeah, I would never take advice from anyone in RA but laughing at them I would not do because you cannot be certain if they are actually giving good advice or not. If you're a good player on the other hand, laugh away at people giving bad advice, some of the stuff you hear is hilarious. RA actually infuriates me. The amount of truely HORRIBLE players there is staggering and the amount of utter retards is phenomenal. It's different if you just out and out flame someone but when you can give reasons WHY someone is bad and exactly WHAT it is that they are doing wrong and they just reply with "ur a nub cuz u think im baed" makes me want to /FACEPALM and it just gets worse and worse.

Getting back to the original point now. Chances are if you're new to the game then yes you probably ARE bad and it probably IS your fault that your team is dying a lot but because you're new that is to be expected. Even if you do play to 100% efficiency sometimes you will STILL lose because the other team just might have the tools to counter you properly and some people will still flame you. That is to be expected as well, as like I said earlier, there is A LOT of retards.

As a general rule because GW PvP is so competitive and people do want to win, there is a lot of flaming etc etc even if you're good but if you're getting consistently flamed and I mean quite a lot then yeah, you're probably doing something wrong. You just gotta grow a thick skin, learn the game quick and ignore the retards BUT DO NOT ignore advice. You get a lot of bad players that stay bad because they think they are pro and do not listen to good advice.

Eddie Frenzy Spam

Eddie Frenzy Spam

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Jul 2007

Old N Dirty [ym]

W/E

Quote:
Originally Posted by jiggles View Post
i play this game to win at shit. Not have nubs who think theyre the one try and prove me wrong. I goto the snowball arena hoping that people have a slight idea of how to play so that way i can carry the team. Not people take presents to the wrong avatar and then call everyone else a noob.

And in pvp monks are the most demanding proffession. It is your JOB to keep people alive, it says so in the manual. Just going to add, people who overextend can be ignored. As will their general ignorance regarding doing something wrong. Dont be shit at something and then expect everyone to give you an easy ride. Just reading your post its rather obvious this is your first mmorpg else you wouldve stfu and stop crying by now.

If your expecting everyone to be really nice and wondering why people are so mean, you should go away.
I actually agree with this pretty much.

I think some people are misinterpreting it though. He's not saying if you're new to the game you should go in and be instantly pro, what he's saying is, expect to be flamed for being bad because people want to win and people expect others to know WTF 2 DO.

Just you know, don't QQ about how other people are flaming you because you're monking and it's your first time playing and everyone on your team is dead. It is to be expected. It's hardly a surprise.

Although I think he could have written it a bit better =P

Kattar

Kattar

EXCESSIVE FLUTTERCUSSING

Join Date: Mar 2007

SMS (lolgw2placeholder)

Me/

Quote:
This is my first MMORPG
There's your problem.

Find a guild that isn't full of jerks and stick with them. Don't talk to anyone else unless you absolutely have to. And if you have to, be prepared for idiocy. Either the people will be nice, and you'll have put your guard up for no reason with no harm done, or it'll be deserved and you'll remember why you put your guard up in the first place.

This also works in real life.

GhostKairi

GhostKairi

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Mar 2008

WTB Q8 Fire/ES Staffs And OS Crystallines!

Teh Academy [PhD] - Tomb of the collectors

E/

Real Life > Guild Wars

Scythe O F Glory

Scythe O F Glory

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: May 2008

New Jersey

League of Elite [LoE]

D/

You'll get used to it. And if they blame you for their loss, chances are they're bad themselves. Just join a guild that's friendly and stuff and you'll start to like the community.

GhostKairi

GhostKairi

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Mar 2008

WTB Q8 Fire/ES Staffs And OS Crystallines!

Teh Academy [PhD] - Tomb of the collectors

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Quote:
Originally Posted by Scythe O F Glory View Post
You'll get used to it. And if they blame you for their loss, chances are they're bad themselves. Just join a guild that's friendly and stuff and you'll start to like the community.
Im not saying this is Wrong or Right, but when a R12 says to a R2 "You sux omg getz out!1!!!!111!" i would agree with the R12.

-Sonata-

-Sonata-

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Nov 2007

Pretty Hate Machines [NIN]

Me/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Avarre View Post
People don't want to lose due to inexperience, they expect people to know how to play the game - and those in their group who are still learning are a generally unwelcome penalty to their team performance.
You're right. People don't want to lose due to inexperience. However, the OP wasn't talking about HA where this is a valid argument in a team either holding halls, or not. RA is where he/she had the issue.

People playing the competitive side of PvP, who desire a team that doesn't include players who are "Still Learning", shouldn't be in Random Arena's to begin with where the OP stated he/she was in. It's where the bulk of those "who are still learning" are at and those who stake claims of knowing this game inside-out should be well aware of the experience levels they will encounter in Random Arena's. Noone can play the oblivious card on this.

Getting flamed and harrassed for intentionally greifing a team in RA is one thing. Getting flamed and harrassed for trying to learn PvP, in the Arena's designed for players to do just that - Learn - is another. It happens far too often and most often from highly experienced players who should know full well there are players with little, or zero experience, in Guild Wars PvP.


So...I'll flip the coin...highly experienced players are an unwelcomed penalty to the new player who is trying to learn PvP when it's in the first learning stage of competitive PvP in Guild Wars; Random Arena's.


@Akeido; Don't take it personally. We all started somewhere. If you enjoy the competition, keep at it. Whether it's your fault, or not, none of us learn without taking the defeats with the wins. It's how we all become better at it.

kagenuma

kagenuma

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Mar 2007

here. And i SPeak ENgRISH OnLY!

ign:Apocrypha of Yzarc

W/

Quote:
Originally Posted by -Sonata- View Post
You're right.


So...I'll flip the coin...highly experienced players are an unwelcomed penalty to the new player who is trying to learn PvP when it's in the first learning stage of competitive PvP in Guild Wars; Random Arena's.

One of the best things ive heared.

oh and btw, i know a high pvp player who calls other noobs when it comes to ra,ta,ha ect. But when he switches to pve...he sucks as hell and is called noob. Its a circle and you cant be awesome at everything

baltazar knight

baltazar knight

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Oct 2007

Belgium

The Myth of Phoenix [Myth]

W/

Quote:
Originally Posted by isamu kurosawa View Post
Welcome to the internet.

People suck.

^ answer of the thread

daze

daze

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Aug 2008

In my own mind

The Dragon Exchange

E/

Quote:
Originally Posted by jiggles View Post
i play this game to win at shit. Not have nubs who think theyre the one try and prove me wrong. I goto the snowball arena hoping that people have a slight idea of how to play so that way i can carry the team. Not people take presents to the wrong avatar and then call everyone else a noob.

And in pvp monks are the most demanding proffession. It is your JOB to keep people alive, it says so in the manual. Just going to add, people who overextend can be ignored. As will their general ignorance regarding doing something wrong. Dont be shit at something and then expect everyone to give you an easy ride. Just reading your post its rather obvious this is your first mmorpg else you wouldve stfu and stop crying by now.

If your expecting everyone to be really nice and wondering why people are so mean, you should go away.

This is a perfect example of 75% of Pve and 90% of PvP like Azazel mentioned.. The best thing to do is bow to their mighty omnipotence and just reply with "ROFL Srz Bsnz".. I myself like to play the game for fun. Hence it is a GAME so it should be FUN. Now granted, i have gotten very good at the game over the years so i am not in the same shoes as you, but i also understand that different people are different. If you want to enjoy the game i would suggest finding a circle of friends (you can add me if you want and id be happy to assist). Mostly just brush off the asshats like Jiggles because they have turned GW into a Job not a game. He obviously jumped right into GW as an "elite 1337" player while everybody else started off as a Newbie.

Oh yeah my first character was a Mo/R who wielded a bow. and this was my build most of the way through prophecys, i didn't change my build until i got to Droks.
[read the wind][hunters shot][power shot][healing breeze][orison of healing][charm animal][comfort animal][resurrect]

nextime you run in to someone like Jiggles or any other douchebag just remember that this is most likely what he looks like.

IXI Nine IXI

IXI Nine IXI

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: Oct 2008

Spraypaint Assassins [TaG]

W/Me

Well I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the code of all MMORPGS is blame the healers.

But don't give up yet. If you are new and are jumping into Pvp then losses are to be expected. Go search for pvxwiki online and get some builds off there. They aren't always the best, but if you are new than they are most likely better than what you are using. Read some monk guides on Team Quitter or here. Learn what an aegis set is.

Eventually you will get better, then you will be farming glad points like crazy because part of the reason healers get blamed is because they are so important. And in RA when we see a monk we (halfway competent players) say "Yay!!! Here come some Glad points!!!

Or just be like me and don't monk in pvp

BUT
If you quit can I have your account?

Lord Sojar

Lord Sojar

The Fallen One

Join Date: Dec 2005

Oblivion

Irrelevant

Mo/Me

The Guild Wars community has its moments of greatness and moments of foul and wickedness. Back when I hosted events, I saw the bright side of it. Unfortunately, the foul side shows more often than the latter.

Wish Swiftdeath

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Feb 2007

Mo/W

Well i would say that you should learn to take your punishment like a man. I PvP'ed a bit as a war, i was horrible - i couldn't kill anything when i started. Gradually i got better and started playing other professions.

Then i decided that i wanted to become a good monk because that's what people wanted the most. I was bad, people flamed me, they told me i had bad technique, whatever. I kept joining teams and trying to improve, asking better players (you can usually see) for advice or to tell you what you're doing wrong etc.

That's how i learned to play properly, sometimes i'll fool around in AB with guildies and friends running bad builds for fun but 90% of the time when i play properly people compliment me on my monking and are very friendly. Of course there are some idiot's that will call you bad while standing in Savannah heat while a dervish is pounding on them etc but you know who those people are so just tell them what they're doing wrong or /ignore.

Sorry for the rambling but what i'm really trying to say is just practice, don't be scared to ask for CONSTRUCTIVE advice and ignore those giving you bad advice or just insulting you.

Also i find quite often that if somebody is telling you that you're bad or whatever, if you ask them what you did wrong - alot of the time the guy will actually help you if you seem to genuinely want to learn.

In hindsight i am glad that people raged at me and told me to gtfo because i was terrible, it gave me incentive to practice and get better rather than think i was the best monk in the game (as 90% of all beginner's do).

So just work hard and eventually you'll be the one telling people what to do.

Unreal Havoc

Guest

Join Date: Dec 2007

Quote:
Originally Posted by Avarre View Post
You might think he's stupid, but as far as competitive play goes, he's correct. People don't want to lose due to inexperience, they expect people to know how to play the game - and those in their group who are still learning are a generally unwelcome penalty to their team performance.
Throwing snowballs is serious buisnness.

Also, with that attitude, it's people with your way of thinking that ruin the learning experience of those trying to get into PvP, whether it's for the first time ever, or if they're trying to learn a new proffession.

I think the elitists forget they were once newbs once also, it shows when they use their elitism to look down on newbs just for trying to learn how to play.

If you can't handle the fact, in a gametype where your team is picked randomly, that not everyone may be of your skill level then I suggest either stop playing that gametype or stop playing PvP altogether.

Avarre

Avarre

Bubblegum Patrol

Join Date: Dec 2005

Singapore Armed Forces

Quote:
Originally Posted by Unreal Havoc View Post
I think the elitists forget they were once newbs once also, it shows when they use their elitism to look down on newbs just for trying to learn how to play.
I don't speak for everyone, but when I was new and got into a group I sat down, shut up, and listened to directions. In arenas like snowball you try to make sure the group knows what to do. If a new player chooses to ignore directions, then clearly they're not 'trying to learn how to play', and are causing trouble for the group.

If a new guy is following or asking for directions and still getting beat on for no practical reason then that's different altogether (though still understandable, to me. It's not their responsibility to play mentor).

Abedeus

Abedeus

Grotto Attendant

Join Date: Jan 2007

Niflheim

R/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Avarre View Post
I don't speak for everyone, but when I was new and got into a group I sat down, shut up, and listened to directions. In arenas like snowball you try to make sure the group knows what to do. If a new player chooses to ignore directions, then clearly they're not 'trying to learn how to play', and are causing trouble for the group.

If a new guy is following or asking for directions and still getting beat on for no practical reason then that's different altogether (though still understandable, to me. It's not their responsibility to play mentor).
Couldn't agree more. If you shut up and look and listen to people, you will learn more.

1. You don't bug people.
2. They don't get interrupted/distracted.
3. They get more awesomeness to show.
4. You all win more.
5. Morals are up 300%
6. You train hard and become The Jedi Knight.... Oh, wait. But you get the idea.