What to do with hard insults?

ReiNaruto

ReiNaruto

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Jun 2007

Valencia, Spain

Green Arse Team

I was wondering if you can do anything about ppl insulting you. I dont think just sitting and ignoring them is sufficient.

Last night I was playin AB with 3 guildies and a friend from outside of the alliance. We all are spanish, so we were speaking spanish to coordinate in game (my mike is dead).

Then, one of the groups began to say samething like beaners (at that moment, I didn't know what was that). One minute after they started to scream: MEXICANS GO TO HELL, WE WANT YOU ALL DEAD. I HATE MEXICANS, THERE ARE TOO MUCH IN CALIFORNIA. And in private: I'll gonna burn you beaner. Go RED ENGINE GORED ENGINE GORED ENGINE GORED ENGINE GO to your home.

And thinks like that, I was wondering if anything can be done with this stupid people.

The funny thing is that they blame me for speaking spanish, and when I told them that I wasn't mexican, they begun to blame all latin american people, when I told them again that I wasn't even american, they just shout up. It was funny.

jackie

jackie

/retired

Join Date: Dec 2005

On the Beach

Screenshot & report to support. With luck they might get temp ban.
Without gamemasters that's pretty much only way.

Aragorn

Aragorn

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Oct 2005

Barcelona

Caminantes del Crepúsculo CC

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screen and he will get banned.
it works for me, i make screens from a guy and 3 days after he whispers me "ty for ban" i reply "np"
P.D: im also spanish

Etta

Etta

Forge Runner

Join Date: Jun 2006

Mancland, British Empire

Take a screen shot, write down the time and place of the incident and report them as a racist, done. Open a can of beer, sit down and watch the rerun of heroes. Log on guru and see a new" I just been banned! can anyone help me?!!" thread.

zwei2stein

zwei2stein

Grotto Attendant

Join Date: Jun 2006

Europe

The German Order [GER]

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for me "but i am not mexican - bast latinamericans - but i am not american - silence" is pretty good. It made him look like really closeminded fool and hopefully realize something ... meh, who am i kidding.

warren_kn

warren_kn

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: May 2005

London, England

Quote:
Originally Posted by Aragorn
screen and he will get banned.
it works for me, i make screens from a guy and 3 days after he whispers me "ty for ban" i reply "np"
P.D: im also spanish
I take it you warned him you'd take shots of the conversation, otherwise how did he know it was you that got him banned? I thought the process was anonymous. Although he could have wised up to the fact you were the only person he'd acted like an ass to.

Roshi_ikkyu

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Apr 2006

Mo/W

Quote:
Originally Posted by ReiNaruto
I was wondering if you can do anything about ppl insulting you. I dont think just sitting and ignoring them is sufficient.

Last night I was playin AB with 3 guildies and a friend from outside of the alliance. We all are spanish, so we were speaking spanish to coordinate in game (my mike is dead).

Then, one of the groups began to say samething like beaners (at that moment, I didn't know what was that). One minute after they started to scream: MEXICANS GO TO HELL, WE WANT YOU ALL DEAD. I HATE MEXICANS, THERE ARE TOO MUCH IN CALIFORNIA. And in private: I'll gonna burn you beaner. Go RED ENGINE GORED ENGINE GORED ENGINE GORED ENGINE GO to your home.

And thinks like that, I was wondering if anything can be done with this stupid people.

The funny thing is that they blame me for speaking spanish, and when I told them that I wasn't mexican, they begun to blame all latin american people, when I told them again that I wasn't even american, they just shout up. It was funny.
I suggest you take a scrn cap, and report. But also remember they can't insult you, the only means in those words are the ones we attach.
Don't let it get to you.

Productivity

Productivity

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Apr 2007

Mo/

I'd suggest you stop expecting everything in life to be a padded room and ignore it... Complaining about it just encourages them.

spellsword

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Mar 2006

Ignore it, morons like that aren't worth your time.

Ravenholm

Ravenholm

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: Oct 2006

lol, you did the best thing there and i hate the fact that it goes on.

To be honest i do admire you for even bothering to learn English, i mean most British people when they go over to Spain and other countries they expect everyone to speak English which is an insult to Spain and other countries cultures.

So my advice is just to ignore it, sure it will make then say more insults but thats just because they are getting angry as the aren't getting a reaction out of you :P

-Loki-

-Loki-

Forge Runner

Join Date: Oct 2005

Ignore it and just enjoy the fact that you aren't a handitard like them.

makosi

makosi

Grotto Attendant

Join Date: Mar 2006

"Pre-nerf" is incorrect. It's pre-buff.

Requirement Begins With R [notQ]

Me/

That isn't just insulting, it's racism.

I had a dark-skinned character and, even though I'm caucasion, I recieved racial remarks from time to time. I'd be lying if I said it didn't hurt.

They're just kids whose families obviously condone xenophobia and the best thing you can do, like -Loki- said, is to rise above it and feel grateful that you aren't one of them. Report it if you made screenshots too.

onerabbit

onerabbit

Grotto Attendant

Join Date: Mar 2006

Thanks to all the guru [mods]

Quote:
Originally Posted by Ravenholm
lol, you did the best thing there and i hate the fact that it goes on.

To be honest i do admire you for even bothering to learn English, i mean most British people when they go over to Spain and other countries they expect everyone to speak English which is an insult to Spain and other countries cultures.
when i went to spain i learned spanish in about 3 days, by the end of the holiday i was ordering meals, drinks in spanish, chatting to people and stuff in spanish .. i was only 14 then =D


But i agree .. asoon as they start being ***** just ignore them .. other wise u just get more and more frustrated.

prism2525

prism2525

Forge Runner

Join Date: Nov 2005

Among dead bodies.

The Republic of Sky Pirates

E/

Racists are retards.

Retards deserve bans.

They don't deserve your attention.

If they whisp in a few days things like "you got me banned!", it mean Anet did take action, which is good.

Ask them if they want another.

MirandaKali

MirandaKali

Academy Page

Join Date: May 2007

Eastish US

Special Hell

Me/R

Quote:
Originally Posted by Productivity
I'd suggest you stop expecting everything in life to be a padded room and ignore it... Complaining about it just encourages them.
Complaining may, perhaps, encourage them, but it also let's the asshat bigots know that you won't stand for it. With any luck, a complaint to ANet will get the slime-ball banned, and then they will know that such behavior will not be tolerated.
Expecting the world to be a shiny happy place is a fool hearty thing to do, yes. But if you're not going to stand up for yourself and try to make the world a better place, you may as well just lie down and pull the lid closed.

Hobbs

Hobbs

Desert Nomad

Join Date: May 2006

Organised Spam [OS]

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Quote:
Originally Posted by prism2525
Retards deserve bans.
O rly?

Back on topic, if someones insulting me in game I either put them on my ignore list, make witty remarks back or just ignore it. If it really makes you feel bad report them but I don't need the hassle tbh.

explodemyheart

explodemyheart

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Sep 2005

Indiana

Gui1d War스 P01ic트 [Pr으]

Mo/

Remember kids, racism is bad but ableism is okay.

Molock

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Sep 2006

Qu??bec

Legacy of Angels [Halo]

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The same thing happens to me when I start speaking french...
They are like : "shut up you stupid french person" or other more vulgar insults..

Anyway, I have reported many incidents and have gotten angry pm's back, lol
They do suspend them

quickmonty

quickmonty

Ancient Windbreaker

Join Date: May 2005

Ignore.

Make no reply.

Take screen shots and report to ANet

Know that you are a better person because you did not retaliate in kind, and you did the community a service by reporting this kind of behavior.

Dodgers777

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: Jul 2007

It's hard to just ignore hateful comments like that. I feel for you. Try turning off local chat next time.

Snow Bunny

Snow Bunny

Alcoholic From Yale

Join Date: Jul 2007

Strong Foreign Policy [sFp]

Report, check friends list.

4 days later, he will appear

He will pm you, "**** ***** **** ****!!!" (Myriad of racism) Better yet, hope he gets his friend to impersonate a GM and pm you. Then you're in for a GREAT time. (Happened to me)

Report both, check friends list

You'll never see them again.

Sit back, and enjoy.

MSecorsky

MSecorsky

Furnace Stoker

Join Date: Jun 2005

So Cal

The Sinister Vanguard

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Obviously the screen shot and report is the right way to go.

In addition... you can tell them that Spanish is one of seven languages that you speak and at that very moment you're looking out over a topless beach on St. Tropez island.

Then enjoy the stunned silence.

ReiNaruto

ReiNaruto

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Jun 2007

Valencia, Spain

Green Arse Team

Heheheh, thanks averybody. I didn't take the screenshoot, I was just trying to shutdown some kurzick monk :P Next time, I'll take the photo, and I'll report it.

I wanted to know they way to proceed. I didn't really feel bad about this, people like that exist everywhere. I just wanted to know if the can be punished.

On the other hand, there is no real problem about speaking in English, because English is one of the 7 languages that I can speak. In addition, I didn't get angry because I was getting a drink in a beach at St. Tropez while a hot girl is just trying to get fun with me...

Oh, sorry. My imagination again...

Again, thanks.

Cyandroid

Pre-Searing Cadet

Join Date: Jun 2007

Chicago

R/W

I hate to be so picky but...
Concerning several posts on this thread; It strikes me as a bit odd that people would use the word "retard" in the same sentence that they were saying how ignorant racist people are...maybe we could think of a better word to use to describe how detestable racists are?

As far as the OP is concerned, report them. I don't buy into this "ignore them" strategy. If ignorant people are allowed to continue to be abusive without any consequences, they will simply keep doing it. Fight back. Ban 'em! If you want a "code of conduct", help to enforce it! Next time you beat those jerks in a pvp match, make sure you say "Adios Muchachos!" after it's over.

ReiNaruto

ReiNaruto

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Jun 2007

Valencia, Spain

Green Arse Team

Cyan, you are right. But, I didn't expected that kind of behaivour, so I didn't know what to do.

I don't like the way of ignore them. It is like to ignore a problem thinking that it will get fixed for its own. That's why I started this thread, despite of being playing for two years, I have never needed to contact with operators or any kind of GM. I'm such a noob on this aspect of the game.

And, don't worry, after they were silenced, I went on speaking on spanish with my friends. This kind of people won't affect me too much.

Sorry for my english, It's not my native language :P

Cyandroid

Pre-Searing Cadet

Join Date: Jun 2007

Chicago

R/W

Rei,

Your English is quite good. Don't worry about it! I'm sorry you had such a negative experience. It's funny how ignorant some Americans can be. This country was colonized, built, and defended by "foreigners". It's a "melting pot" of people from many nations! Yet people still act that way. It's just mind-numbing...and very sad. Anyway, keep playing and have fun!

Kcp

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Dec 2005

OBF

N/

Snappy comebacks beat hard insults every time. If you can't bite back quick and hard off the top of your head, make a list or something and put it by your PC.

Send them home to their mommies crying, that's what I do

Wraith of Shadows

Wraith of Shadows

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: May 2007

Atlanta, Georgia

The Mentalists[THPK]

A/

screen shot and report. and if ur like alot of us who are apethetic, ignore/change district/ dont respond. i get alot of "hate comments" and i frankly dont care. yea, its bad bein apathetic. oh well, i dont care

WarKaster

WarKaster

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Dec 2006

Los Angeles

SlingBlades

D/Mo

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kcp
Snappy comebacks beat hard insults every time. If you can't bite back quick and hard off the top of your head, make a list or something and put it by your PC.

Send them home to their mommies crying, that's what I do

man...until i read this i though i was the only one who likes to screw with people like the one's the OP was talking about.

Kcp

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Dec 2005

OBF

N/

Quote:
Originally Posted by WarKaster
man...until i read this i though i was the only one who likes to screw with people like the one's the OP was talking about.
Ya reporting people, and running home with your ball is so mature.

Political correctness will be the death of humanity. Grow a pair people, it's just a video game, mostly populated with underage peons, and you're letting them upset you with everyday smack talk. Did humanity make it this far being a society of emotional snitches? No, we beat and killed one another to make it this far.

Come on what do you people do in real life when confronted with drama, smack talk, or aggressive behaviour? Call 911, tell your boss, run to mommy?

No wonder there's a new "my name/account was banned" weekly on all the forums.

ShadowsRequiem

ShadowsRequiem

Furnace Stoker

Join Date: Oct 2005

Inde is Smoking [Hawt] *ToA*

W/E

just report the shitheads

AB is full of pieces of garbage, dispose of them properly.

dsnesnintendo

dsnesnintendo

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Join Date: Jun 2006

chinese food

N/Mo

Pull a jay and silent bob and locate them and KICK THEIR ASS

Issac

Issac

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Oct 2006

Earthrealm

W/A

Lol their are alot of stupid people in the world, i'm just happy i'm not one of them. Just think if they insult you, that makes u smarter and better then them.

I never ignored anyone in game yet and tis been over 2 years. I find it that im running away from the problem if I do that lol, but also I haven't been in such a bad situation that I had to

rick1027

rick1027

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Apr 2006

W/R

report them in my opinion you ignore them you give them the go ahead to do it again if you talk back to them your dragging yourself down to there level and your no better then they are. report em that way they might learn you cant do this type of thing

gasmaskman

gasmaskman

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Jun 2006

None, I don't play anymore.

Mo/W

If someone is seriously annoying me I report them (only happened once), otherwise I just ignore them. After a week I remove them, never bother me again.
Quote:
report them in my opinion you ignore them you give them the go ahead to do it again if you talk back to them your dragging yourself down to there level and your no better then they are. report em that way they might learn you cant do this type of thing
Doing in a whisper doesn't really matter....

Voltar

Voltar

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Join Date: May 2006

My dog let's me crash at her place.

POB

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Quote:
Originally Posted by explodemyheart
Remember kids, racism is bad but ableism is okay.
nice. i was thinking it and you posted it (mmayb because i work with diagnosed retards).

Personette

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Feb 2007

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kcp

Political correctness will be the death of humanity.
Political correctness = "what words do I use to get people to think that I'm not a racist, even though I am?"

I don't understand why this is not more readily apparent.

If you aren't a racist, political correctness doesn't seem to exist. It certainly doesn't chafe.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kcp
Grow a pair people, it's just a video game, mostly populated with underage peons, and you're letting them upset you with everyday smack talk.
This is good enough advice.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kcp
Did humanity make it this far being a society of emotional snitches? No, we beat and killed one another to make it this far.
Sweeping generalizations of this kind are always false.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kcp
Come on what do you people do in real life when confronted with drama, smack talk, or aggressive behaviour? Call 911, tell your boss, run to mommy?
Yeah, forget about 911. Let's bring back vigilante justice!

ReiNaruto

ReiNaruto

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Jun 2007

Valencia, Spain

Green Arse Team

Come on guys, please don't enter now in the discussion of the game is plenty o morons, I dont like the kind of people that don't fix their own problems, I don't like the kind of people that don't like the kind of people...

We all are humans, we all think different and we all have our own way of living and thinking. There is good boys there are bad boys, there are boys that aren't good or bad.

So, please, this was a post to know if there was any mechanism to control the people who don't respect the coexistence rules. Now, I know the way to go. Don't make this a flame of people shouting.

Thanks.

Harmless

Harmless

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Dec 2005

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What's a Guild? [LoL]

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Quote:
Originally Posted by Dodgers777
It's hard to just ignore hateful comments like that. I feel for you. Try turning off local chat next time.
In AB the other peoples chat shows up in team chat....so turning local off would help only if they were on the other side.

That kind of behavior is why I usually have local chat off. Its sad though....you miss opportunities to make friends because you don't want to listen to the jerks mouthing off.

prism2525

prism2525

Forge Runner

Join Date: Nov 2005

Among dead bodies.

The Republic of Sky Pirates

E/

Quote:
Originally Posted by Voltar
nice. i was thinking it and you posted it (mmayb because i work with diagnosed retards).
Don't take me wrong! I didn't mean that REAL (ie. born or made so by some RL event/accident) retards deserve bans. I meant those racist chaps out there.

PS: technically, I'm unsure whether racist = retard, but that's another topic.