Has anyone ever made you CRY on guildwars.......?

jiggles

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Sep 2007

N/

With laughter yes, sad?

Roflcakes.

Ccat

Ccat

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Apr 2008

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Originally Posted by Sword Hammer Axe View Post
Not very idealistic... so are you saying that if everyone else is inhuman, you must drop your humanity? Well if you do that, then will it ever stop? What you just said would mean that progress in the world is non existant. If one person follows that principle of yours, well, there would be no end to it.
Hell if people did what you say they should do, slavery and racism would still be ok, instead of frowned upon and illegal, and the progress of the world would come to an end.
Yup, that's pretty much the internet for you. It's demonstrated by anonymous and 4chan.

eyekwah2

eyekwah2

Academy Page

Join Date: Jul 2009

Martyrs to the Flame

Rt/Me

Quote:
*spoiler*

I dunno why, but in EoTN, when Gadd died...

i shed a tear or two.
Lol. You know when my wife drags me to watch a romantic flick or some corny hollywood movie in which one of the main characters die, she cries a river but it never affects me (I sometimes tease her about it). Strangely enough though, while I didn't cry, it tugged at me pretty hard when Gadd died. I had to grab wipe my eyes with my shirt before my wife could spot me. Totally took me off-guard too. :P

I used to be an immature gamer. Long before guild wars was ever made, I would play a lot of first person shooters. Back then, losing was harsh. I can't even explain why, but losing was personal. It was like being shown I was a bad player was like saying I was bad at everything. Though that inspired rage. Never cried one tear from that, though I think the keyboard I was using during that time of my life is now missing 2 keys because I never found them after having theraputically releasing my anger on my poor keyboard.

Now things are different. I don't think it has to do with the fact that it's a different kind of game, because I still get mad for losing. Difference is that the very worst, I get strong indications that my newly inspired build sucks royally, but that is anger towards myself. Though after a while I get over it, make a few adjustments to the build and then I'm fine. I can shrug off 99.9% of insults simply because I know whatever they say can't really reflect me because they don't even know who I am.

I don't cry, but I do get sad when I see old friends either leave the guild or fight amongst themselves because most my friends are way too full of themselves to apologize and so sorry as they might be, they burn bridges and relationships.

Mr.Kotte

Mr.Kotte

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Jul 2005

Me/

Nope.
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Neo Atomisk

Neo Atomisk

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Dec 2008

State College, Pennsylvania, United States

Zealots of Shiverpeak [ZoS]

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I've cried of laughter at things in various chats.
I shed a tear when Rurik and Gadd died.
And I cried of pain while SC'ing.

Monster Expert

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: Feb 2008

None.

W/

On Runescape, yeah, but on Guild Wars? Nah.

Dallcingi

Dallcingi

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Nov 2006

USA

The Black Parades [死人死]

Mo/

Yeah ... its pretty sad cause I had to roll a mesmer in HA once and i cried over the ghostly cause i was frustrated =*(

MithranArkanere

MithranArkanere

Underworld Spelunker

Join Date: Nov 2006

wikipedia.org/wiki/Vigo

Heraldos de la Llama Oscura [HLO]

E/

Just must be joking. I don't even know if I have lachrymals. Maybe that's why my eyes are always red even if I already blink more than enough.

qvtkc

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Apr 2006

Same as others. I never cried about the game, did once or twice while playing it but that wasn't related to GW in any way. I did have tears in my eyes on some points in the storyline, for several reasons (I might be the only GW player to get deeply moved by Rurik's speech at the end of Nolani Academy mission).

I did smash a keyboard in rage over the game once though. The damage was pretty minor as I'm still using it.

The story in the opening post made me sad, poor girl

Red Apple

Red Apple

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Aug 2007

[DuDe]

Mo/

Not that I can remember(at least not tears of anger), but hey! this thread reminds me of the infamous video of that German Kid on youtube.

That my friends makes me cry a river of LOLz

AngelWJedi

AngelWJedi

Furnace Stoker

Join Date: Sep 2008

orlando,florida

Society of Souls [Argh]

Rt/E

i only cried a few times. 2 of them was when someone close turned out to be *insert 20 curse words here* jerk. last time is when i found out my mom had cancer and i told my friends only to end up crying again. luckly she is remisson now.

My New Name

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: May 2008

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Originally Posted by AngelWJedi View Post
i only cried a few times. 2 of them was when someone close turned out to be *insert 20 curse words here* jerk. last time is when i found out my mom had cancer and i told my friends only to end up crying again. luckly she is remisson now.
oh bummer man and phew that it turned out ok in the and
@ OP:naaaaaaaaah

Scary

Scary

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Sep 2007

Uhmmmm??

Limburgse Jagers [LJ]

N/

well not really Anyone.. more like somthing..
and over and over.. Men must be not to smart of me

O yea,, the Zaishen chest.. that really makes me cry over and over

The Josip

The Josip

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Aug 2009

Me/

Wel, I almost cried today. It's one of those days when after PUGing for a while you again see that Heroes have IQ highest than average PUG. No exaggeration.

I mean, when I tell my hero to stand still he stands still. PUGs.. pugs cant stand still even when that's all they need to do (like, dungeon run), and it fails.

I drastically lower demands when I PUG, but half of pug experiences is like spending afternoon with children with disabilities. Mental ones. No exaggeration.

The proof of this is that PvE is getting dumber and dumber, so that current population can keep the pace. ANet is simply following the trend. I will not buy GW2 because by the time GW2 comes out, general population and content generated for it will be on a level of "oook!" "ugh!".

Personally, I would just kill people with IQ lower than 80 or enslave them (see below).

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Originally Posted by Sword Hammer Axe
Hell if people did what you say they should do, slavery and racism would still be ok
Slavery and racism ARE ok, what exactly makes you think they aint? Oh wait, it's 20th century propaganda of political correctness.

Most people should be slaves because their qualities are not good for anything else.

Monk of Myst

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: Feb 2009

Knights of Mysterania

Mo/

Umm...yes but not exactly because of the game.

Basically, I ended up in a PUG (Yes, this was in GW) with someone who worked for my fiance and they had no idea who I was other than someone who knew their boss. I had only spoken with my fiance for five minutes when my fiance said he was too tired to talk to me. I went to do the mission and I found out that this person in the PUG went to a party with him earlier that night and went to a strip club where he took the stripper into another room and...more than just a lap dance happened.

Needless to say, I was ticked and I called my fiance to question him about it. Sadly, this guy in the PUG was right and I broke it off with him that night. Sadly, for the rest of the mission, I was quite worthless. My ex never did figure out how I found out about that.

Again, yes, this happened in GW. Yes, this really happened.

YunSooJin

YunSooJin

Pyromaniac

Join Date: Aug 2005

Mo/W

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Originally Posted by Monk of Myst View Post
Umm...yes but not exactly because of the game.

Basically, I ended up in a PUG (Yes, this was in GW) with someone who worked for my fiance and they had no idea who I was other than someone who knew their boss. I had only spoken with my fiance for five minutes when my fiance said he was too tired to talk to me. I went to do the mission and I found out that this person in the PUG went to a party with him earlier that night and went to a strip club where he took the stripper into another room and...more than just a lap dance happened.

Needless to say, I was ticked and I called my fiance to question him about it. Sadly, this guy in the PUG was right and I broke it off with him that night. Sadly, for the rest of the mission, I was quite worthless. My ex never did figure out how I found out about that.

Again, yes, this happened in GW. Yes, this really happened.
this is hilarious. hilarious in the way you found out, not in terms of your fiance having loose morals.

Monk of Myst

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: Feb 2009

Knights of Mysterania

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Originally Posted by YunSooJin View Post
this is hilarious. hilarious in the way you found out, not in terms of your fiance having loose morals.
So true. It wasn't funny at the time and I was crying after finding out (I mean, seriously, what are the chances that I'd pug with a co-worker of my ex's and I didn't even know the guy played GW) but now that I look back, I laugh and think "Playing GW stopped me from marrying a cheater." lol

refer

refer

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Jan 2009

US

This is why I don't use vent and stick to more casual PvP. People are asswipes on the internet, inflated egos the size of Pangaea. People need to be more humble on the internet, even if they are quite good. (Too bad I can't invite an anti-confidence gun and knock people down to Earth). Having social anxiety makes it difficult anyways... I would probably get fustrated but then too afraid of offending people in the match.

He sounds like a horrible leader anyways. Blowing up at her is not nice, you don't do that to be people (I don't' care if it's the internet or not). People remember that, nobody wants to work with Mr. "We win or I unleash drama on you". BTW, how far was he exactly pushed?

YunSooJin

YunSooJin

Pyromaniac

Join Date: Aug 2005

Mo/W

Quote:
Originally Posted by Monk of Myst View Post
So true. It wasn't funny at the time and I was crying after finding out (I mean, seriously, what are the chances that I'd pug with a co-worker of my ex's and I didn't even know the guy played GW) but now that I look back, I laugh and think "Playing GW stopped me from marrying a cheater." lol
haha, so I guess in a way, we should congratulate you =) *phew* sidestepped that bullet =P

YunSooJin

YunSooJin

Pyromaniac

Join Date: Aug 2005

Mo/W

Bad double post

DarkRazzie

DarkRazzie

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: Aug 2009

Lost in Tyria

MAGE

W/Mo

I must say... for folks to get so bent out of shape over a GAME is completely childish. I've had some guild mates treat me that way... no, I didn't cry... because I didn't care. My only retort was "IT IS A G A M E!!!!". If I am not having a good night in PVP (and I don't really PVP much actually, I prefer PVE), then I am just not having a good night. Simple. Its a game kids... a game. Supposed to be fun! A game. I said that already didn't I... sorry! LOL

Chop it Off

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: May 2006

Saviors of [EviL]

A/

i only cry when i see the typical pug wammo who thinks hes l33t and has GOD in his name.

you know. spamming frenzy healsig while maintaining mending and vigorous spirit then telling the monk he sucks cause he died when he tried to tank ALL of fissure/uw/etc... >.>

Eskimoz

Eskimoz

Academy Page

Join Date: Aug 2009

My house

W/

Two groups of higher lvled Corsairs that had gathered around the resurrection shrine....

*shudder*

Sword Hammer Axe

Sword Hammer Axe

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Jun 2008

Look up.

Kurzick Conflagration Unit [KCU].

W/

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Originally Posted by DarkRazzie View Post
I must say... for folks to get so bent out of shape over a GAME is completely childish. I've had some guild mates treat me that way... no, I didn't cry... because I didn't care. My only retort was "IT IS A G A M E!!!!". If I am not having a good night in PVP (and I don't really PVP much actually, I prefer PVE), then I am just not having a good night. Simple. Its a game kids... a game. Supposed to be fun! A game. I said that already didn't I... sorry! LOL
You can't really use that logic here. If you don't cry over an argument then kudos to that really You can't call it childish though. First of all there's the fact that you are playing together with real people. Real people use real words which can be really hurtful, even if it's over a chat forum. Then you might say: GW is an MMO and not a chat forum. Now here's the difference: You can play a game. Now if you could play a game in a chat forum like Facebook, Twitter, MSN and such then would you react completely different towards the things the people you chat with? No of course you wouldn't. That would pretty much make no sense. Calling people childish because they emotionally react to what they read, that has been written to/about them: Childish.

Just to clarify: I've never cried over GW either. However I have become so frustrated that I smashed my hand into the wall so hard that I couldn't use it for over a week. I know, pretty stupid XD

Chocobo1

Chocobo1

Desert Nomad

Join Date: Sep 2007

New Zealand

CoA

N/

Never cried, seems kinda odd. But I have got sad over trying to learn UWSC : (. Pugs just aren't the friendly type </3.

Sword Hammer Axe

Sword Hammer Axe

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Jun 2008

Look up.

Kurzick Conflagration Unit [KCU].

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Originally Posted by Chocobo1 View Post
Never cried, seems kinda odd. But I have got sad over trying to learn UWSC : (. Pugs just aren't the friendly type </3.
Amen to that, me brother.

DarkRazzie

DarkRazzie

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: Aug 2009

Lost in Tyria

MAGE

W/Mo

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Originally Posted by Sword Hammer Axe View Post
You can't really use that logic here. If you don't cry over an argument then kudos to that really You can't call it childish though. First of all there's the fact that you are playing together with real people. Real people use real words which can be really hurtful, even if it's over a chat forum. Then you might say: GW is an MMO and not a chat forum. Now here's the difference: You can play a game. Now if you could play a game in a chat forum like Facebook, Twitter, MSN and such then would you react completely different towards the things the people you chat with? No of course you wouldn't. That would pretty much make no sense. Calling people childish because they emotionally react to what they read, that has been written to/about them: Childish.

Just to clarify: I've never cried over GW either. However I have become so frustrated that I smashed my hand into the wall so hard that I couldn't use it for over a week. I know, pretty stupid XD
Ehhhhh, NO. I am calling someone childish who gets pissed off and lashes out at his team mates or one of them with the crudeness described in the original post here. Temper tantrums are childish, in a game, in business, in anything. I remember my little brother falling out on the floor pounding his fists and kicking his feet when he was like 5 years old (a child)...

It's one thing to react to something someone says, two people disagree about a build or something, and proceed to argue about it. Thats not childish, thats healthy debate. If someone on your team is trying, but having a bad night, or perhaps they're new to the game, and your team is losing because of them.... the best way to react to this person is probably to teach, not call out in front of everyone else. This is precisely why I haven't done much PVP stuff since Prophecies was the only game... people don't want to teach, have no patience with others trying to get started, and are only looking for "ranked" team mates.

Now, I did NOT say that reacting to the game or a player is itself "childish". Verbally abusing someone BECAUSE of a GAME is the childish part. I'm sorry if I did not clarify that enough.

Sword Hammer Axe

Sword Hammer Axe

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Jun 2008

Look up.

Kurzick Conflagration Unit [KCU].

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Originally Posted by DarkRazzie View Post
Now, I did NOT say that reacting to the game or a player is itself "childish". Verbally abusing someone BECAUSE of a GAME is the childish part. I'm sorry if I did not clarify that enough.
Aah cool enough XD A huge difference between what you said and what you meant in previous post, but this pretty much makes it 100% clear. ^^

lettuceman44

lettuceman44

Pre-Searing Cadet

Join Date: Sep 2009

Pennsyvlania

None as of now.

R/Mo

Never cried, but annoyed.
I just can't seem to find a decent guild.......they are either full of annoying people, or just don't accept noobs..I want to learn to PVP, but I can't find a guild to teach me. Guilds that are nice and stuff don't do anything or just focus on PVE. I can't seem to find a balance :P

Zahr Dalsk

Grotto Attendant

Join Date: Aug 2007

Canada

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Originally Posted by lettuceman44 View Post
Never cried, but annoyed.
I just can't seem to find a decent guild.......they are either full of annoying people, or just don't accept noobs..I want to learn to PVP, but I can't find a guild to teach me. Guilds that are nice and stuff don't do anything or just focus on PVE. I can't seem to find a balance :P
I was part of a guild like that once. Awesome people, doing PvP all the time, etc.

Guild broke up around two years ago, sadly.

Sword Hammer Axe

Sword Hammer Axe

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Jun 2008

Look up.

Kurzick Conflagration Unit [KCU].

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Never cried, but annoyed.
I just can't seem to find a decent guild.......they are either full of annoying people, or just don't accept noobs..I want to learn to PVP, but I can't find a guild to teach me. Guilds that are nice and stuff don't do anything or just focus on PVE. I can't seem to find a balance :P
There are a lot of nice PvP guilds, and I say that as a total PvE'er. I know, wtf But problem is that they mostly can't survive for long because of the difficulty of PvP. When you lose a battle, you've lost it, and sometimes even with penalty. In PvE you can just try again and such, besides it's much easier to train and prepare for that.

I don't like this whole noob calling thing nor the thing about not giving people a chance. Elitist preferences annoy the crap out of me as well. However I can see why people would prefer playing with players they completely know the capability of. Sometimes you can find the best of comrades in a PvP guild, but the difficult thing is getting into those circles ^^

Drelias Melaku

Drelias Melaku

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Dec 2006

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Denizens of the Underdark [Nite]

N/Me

Yes, actually. My cat disappeared back in April, and I had been crying off and on for quite some time. My friend asked what was wrong, and I told him... All he had to say was, "He's never coming back. Just get over it." It had nothing at all to do with Guild Wars, except that the PM was received in game, but that did make me cry.

When I first started, my first guild was laughing about something that had happened to me earlier on in my life, something that had hurt me then, and still greatly affects me to this day. They weren't laughing at what happened to me, exactly, but the topic in general. They acted as if it was so trivial, and when I told them it was insensitive and not a laughing matter, they continued to go on and on about it. The unpleasant memories made me cry. Again, didn't cry about Guild Wars, but about some personal things in my life that other people trivialized. It's kind of hard to grasp the severity of this example without a more thorough explanation, but whatever.

refer

refer

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Jan 2009

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Yes, actually. My cat disappeared back in April, and I had been crying off and on for quite some time. My friend asked what was wrong, and I told him... All he had to say was, "He's never coming back. Just get over it." It had nothing at all to do with Guild Wars, except that the PM was received in game, but that did make me cry.

When I first started, my first guild was laughing about something that had happened to me earlier on in my life, something that had hurt me then, and still greatly affects me to this day. They weren't laughing at what happened to me, exactly, but the topic in general. They acted as if it was so trivial, and when I told them it was insensitive and not a laughing matter, they continued to go on and on about it. The unpleasant memories made me cry. Again, didn't cry about Guild Wars, but about some personal things in my life that other people trivialized. It's kind of hard to grasp the severity of this example without a more thorough explanation, but whatever.
Those people don't sound nice at all. I would leave them (or at least poke fun at them in sly ways when they open up). I hope you get your kitty back. Could somebody else have found it? Or animal shelters?

Drelias Melaku

Drelias Melaku

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Dec 2006

Avatar by unsolvedenigma.deviantart

Denizens of the Underdark [Nite]

N/Me

Eh, thinking back to that incident, I wonder why I still talk to that friend. That was a very cold, insensitive thing to say to anyone, especially someone who was still getting over the death of her thirteen year-old dog. As for the people in my first guild, I left that day. It over three and a half years ago, though one of the guys from the incident is on my friends list again. I have since come to terms with the.. Topic in the incident with the guild, but at the time, it was still fairly new to me for various reasons I won't get into here.

As for my cat, thank you, but I'm afraid it's not likely. He was technically a "stray", but since he was always in our yard and I had turned him from feral to a lap cat who waited for me multiple times a day, I pretty much considered him my outdoor cat, a good friend. Everyone instantly fell in love with him, even people who weren't fond of cats. I think someone must have picked him up, fallen in love with him, and couldn't bear to part with him. That's what I've been telling myself, anyway, and I'm inclined to believe it.

That's far longer than I intended. Sorry.

Staying on topic, I see a lot of "it's only a game" in this thread. Probably being a broken record (didn't read the whole thread), but it is quite possible to form bonds over the internet. I met my best friend over the internet, and we ended up meeting up in my town a few years ago. If she had raged at me like that, I probably would have been very upset about it, and it sounds like the OP's friend and guildie were good friends before he blew up at her.

Nate112211

Academy Page

Join Date: Aug 2008

E/Mo

I actually cried from rage once while vanquishing. I spent a long time with my heros and hench clearing out some place in kurzick territory, when i got wiped by a boss and his group. I kept dying from this group over and over and almost all party had 60%. Of course I forgot my candy canes, and i only had enough gold to buy morale boost from the shrine avatar to get 45%. Needless to say, I got wiped again by the boss and was zoned out with only a couple baddies left to vanquish. Took me about 15 minutes away from the computer to settle down.

That is all..

eeks

eeks

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: Jul 2006

Sydney, Australia

Lubricated Volcano Love [Club]

Rt/Mo

I think Ive replied here, but it was well over a year ago. I've cried recently! Arguing with a real life friend though, about real life stuff. I was using Guild Wars as a substitute for MSN, as it refused to work on my laptop. GOOD TIMES.

refer

refer

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Jan 2009

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Originally Posted by Drelias Melaku View Post
Eh, thinking back to that incident, I wonder why I still talk to that friend. That was a very cold, insensitive thing to say to anyone, especially someone who was still getting over the death of her thirteen year-old dog. As for the people in my first guild, I left that day. It over three and a half years ago, though one of the guys from the incident is on my friends list again. I have since come to terms with the.. Topic in the incident with the guild, but at the time, it was still fairly new to me for various reasons I won't get into here.

As for my cat, thank you, but I'm afraid it's not likely. He was technically a "stray", but since he was always in our yard and I had turned him from feral to a lap cat who waited for me multiple times a day, I pretty much considered him my outdoor cat, a good friend. Everyone instantly fell in love with him, even people who weren't fond of cats. I think someone must have picked him up, fallen in love with him, and couldn't bear to part with him. That's what I've been telling myself, anyway, and I'm inclined to believe it.

That's far longer than I intended. Sorry.
That isn't that long really. I would take walls of text too.

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Originally Posted by Drelias Melaku View Post
Staying on topic, I see a lot of "it's only a game" in this thread. Probably being a broken record (didn't read the whole thread), but it is quite possible to form bonds over the internet. I met my best friend over the internet, and we ended up meeting up in my town a few years ago. If she had raged at me like that, I probably would have been very upset about it, and it sounds like the OP's friend and guildie were good friends before he blew up at her.
It's not just a game to some people and people on this topic are missing that. Some people play Guild Wars for the experience (tactics, etc), to be part of a team, or to just win. That is why people get angry when something happens. It is has nothing to do with it being "just a game", because it's not just a game to them... had that been true there would be no reaction from them in the first place.

Shasgaliel

Shasgaliel

Jungle Guide

Join Date: Apr 2008

[bomb]

almost when Rurik died...

almost when few of my GW friends died or have someone close died (that is what happens when you were in a guild with some members 65+)

from frustration - when pugging. I can handle rurik and alesia leeroying but not what some pugs are able to do.

from "world-weariness" - when reading local chat. Now it is permanently off together with trade one.

Yes I do prefer to have other team full hench in vizunah regardless if it is NM or HM... Their survivability is higher than most (with one exception) of the teams I encountered there recently.

eyekwah2

eyekwah2

Academy Page

Join Date: Jul 2009

Martyrs to the Flame

Rt/Me

Saying that it's just a game and you should not cry over a game is the same rhetoric your parents beat into your head to keep you from crying after losing in a game of Candyland. What they mean to say is that you should be a sport for losing.

This is not a 'game' in the sense that you win or lose, and I think I speak for everyone here when I say that if you're over 8 years old, when something frustrating/disappointing happens related to the game, you get angry.. not bawl your eyes out. Most people cry in game for reasons rather unrelated to the game.

So anyone who responds to this thread by posting "lol whut! crying is 4 babys lolz" probably not only almost cried playing a game but probably hated themselves for it too.

Show Some Skin

Show Some Skin

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: Jun 2009

Dead.

[Game]

Rt/

The only time i got really sad was when my best friend that i met when i first started playing said she was quiting GW and wanted to give me all her stuff. I still think about all the fun times we had doing missions and stuff and when we first met in Ashford Abbey in pre

Lol, and this one time i was really embarressed when i join a gvg guild. I was in there for a few days and realized that their time was different from my time and nobody told me it was a european guild and that i was the only american in it. And when it was time to do the battle i was getting set up on vent (but i havent used it in a long time) so i was kinda lost, so they had to tell me how to get on and stuff. And then after i got on they were all saying i was a stupid american so it kinda hurt my feelings but idk why. And to make it even worse, i live in the hell desert and it was summer time so i got perfect lag throughout the whole match (115+ degrees to be exact ) So like every 10 mins i would lag out for a few mins and dc, i was so embarressed i left the guild after the day.