What is wrong with people in this game?

Lord Tanakia

Pre-Searing Cadet

Join Date: Jun 2005

Im always here to help, your most likely to find me in Yak's Bend or Lion's Arch, any questions you have i'll try and answer, then again if your sick of not getting replied to online why not ask the question here, everyone here is more than happy to help...

asdar

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: May 2005

Send me a whisper at Asdar Asprinicillin if you want any advice. I won't give free stuff away but I'll always answer questions even if the only answer I can give is that I don't know.

Ironsword

Academy Page

Join Date: May 2005

Newport News Va

Unknown Warriors of Ascalon

W/R

i agree for the most part but i was suprised today when i was in auguary (spellcheck) and some people were asking for hints on fighting the mirror and i chimed with my ideas and a lot of others were doing the same i've found that most of the heavy trading goes on in ascalon city while the other cities and outposts are mostly quiet and if you ask a question pertaining to the business at hand then you will probably get some help but there's always the a holes out there who will just give you some smart answer so like in every aspect of life you have to take the good and try to filter out the bad and try to make friends in game and i'm sure they'll help as much as they can

Old Dood

Old Dood

Middle-Age-Man

Join Date: May 2005

Lansing, Mi

W/Mo

Yes...people are annoying. Not to bright when it comes to manners.

I have tried adjusting my Brightness knob on my monitor. Doesn't seem to be working though.

Accolon Pendragon

Accolon Pendragon

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: May 2005

Mo/R

Quote:
Originally Posted by Eet GnomeSmasher
Also, there are no GMs in game to monitor or curb bad behaviour in the game. And the kids know that and pretty much know that they can act in whatever way they want and get away with it.
That is very true indeed. I was going on a run through Dragon's Lair to capture skills on the other day and mind you that I was the only monk and there wasn't single other player that had Monk as a Second profession even and all of them rushed to combat as though the other 7 players were all tanks which most of them were not. The result was that I was overwhelmed because monks can only heal so much. I received all kinds of abuses, from being called a bad player to retarded and whatnot.

Well, sorry about that. Getting back to topic. I am almost never in town for too long but it is true that it's hard to get some helpful answers. It almost made me give up on the game if it wasn't for the 50 bucks I spent buying the game. However, it is also true that there are some very few charitable souls out there who help you and that is a relief.

Moreover, since I've suffered a lot with that, now I try my best to help whenever I have the opportunity but I really wished that people were a bit more friendly and polite.

Gaele

Gaele

Ascalonian Squire

Join Date: May 2005

Ontario, Canada

Legionnaires of Tyria

E/N

I can admit to being one of the examples of people stated on the first post, but I do often enough respond to questions that don't go along the lines of "is there a merchant in this town?".

The real problem with people is that the more savant players are constantly spammed with stupid questions, and it's a basic response not to answer a question that seems undirected. Simply going around asking Where is the Sigil for Guild Hall? is just as annoying as the trade channel. It's not intended for anyone in particular, so it's easy enough to ignore it. The issue in this thread is that there are so many of these questions that they drown out the productive questions, making the community seem like ignoramouses.

My suggestion is to get into conversation then ask, or wait until you're in a good party with people who don't rush off on their own, then beg the question.

Nokomis

Nokomis

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: May 2005

Minnesota

W/N

Quote:
Originally Posted by Alesia {Healer Henchman}
I'm too shy.

If you are REALLY Alesia the healer henchie, nobody blames you for not answering questions from players. Your life is so hard outside of town, with your being dead or dying 90% of the time. WHo can blame you for indulging in silent contemplation of the afterlife while standing around in the city.

--Nokomis

Nokomis

Nokomis

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: May 2005

Minnesota

W/N

Quote:
Originally Posted by Hand of Shiva
You know I really don't know how much worse GW is compared to all the other games. Ultima, Lineage, Star Wars, WoW, EQ. They all have the jerks and selfish folk out there and this game is no different. Guild Wars just tends to be alot more competitive and that's just the nature of it. Sure people do PUGs (pick up groups) and then split after a mission or what ever but you know what that's just how it goes. People want to get on with what ever they have to do, whether its sell their junk or take care of the baby in the next room. It's not like people are any friendlier in real life. You don't turn to the guy next to you on the subway and go, "Nice riding with you, give me your phone number and maybe we can ride again together." Why should you expect any difference in a game in which you don't even get to see who the guy next to you is. As a side note though when you start getting further into the game that requires more intense team work and there were moments when it came down to the wire you'll get hte "Gj crew" or "Thanks for the team" or what ever it might be but in early on through half way of kryta you won't really be stressed much to finish and so there's not much to congrat one another about. As for answering/helping out new people I have mixed feelings about it. Half the questions that are asked can be found in the Online Manual or the manual that comes with the game if you bought it at a store. People don't bother to read anymore and just assume that someone in the game will give them a crash course. Back in the day games use to come with novel size manuals and very few games could be played without at least going through most of it. People are getting lazy and expect others to do it for them. I went back to ascalon with my level 20 warrior to hand out some weapons to folks who needed them and I was invited into 3 different groups all looking for the same thing "Will you rush us to the next area". I felt rather insulted that after putting an assload of time into getting to where I was that that many people didn't even want to bother working through the game normally.

Sure I might seem like one of those jerks, and I'm fairly sure someone reading this is like "what an ass!" But don't get me wrong. If its a legit question thats not in the manual or not like "can someone take me somewhere" (just an example) I'll take the time to answer it even through the spam, although I'll only answer it once, if your not watching your screen that's your own fault. But I would say that the game would be alot better if some folks were alot less "nice" and made people get off their lazy digital butts and explore.

*gets off the soap box*

*steps onto the soapbox*


In Guild Wars, as in real life, things would be better if people did the right thing regardless of the response they get. In other words, courtesy is NEVER a bad response, even if the person you are courteous to is rotten.

I always thank my group. I always offer an answer if I have it. I always apologize when I screw up. I don't care what other people do. It is about ME doing the right thing. Yes it is just a game. But it is an environment where nobody makes you behave a certain way. It is your chance to see what your true colors are. If you enjoy being a jerkwad in a game, I bet the only reason you are not a jerkwad in real life is because the cost is too high. What does that say about you?

I bet it says your essential nature is that of a jerkwad.

Or if you prefer it in Yodaese: Of the essential nature of jerkwad, you ARE.

*gets off the soapbox...wonders if she shouldn't have been a monk*

--Nokomis

Lord Yulath

Pre-Searing Cadet

Join Date: May 2005

Canada

Arbiters of Ascalon

Me/Mo

Well, having a good guild does alot for the fun factor of this game. In a guild with friends i know(or friends of guild members) and my bro. Its a fun fun guild for us. Currently i am the highest level character followed up by my bro. As it stands to help increase the overall level of kindness of the community we have spent the time to sit in towns and answer questions to people.
I was in pre searing with my new character a few days back, and just sat in foibles fair for roughly 2-3 hours answering questions and giving directions. I spend about 3 hours that day as well helping people with missions post searing.

I really think that this game can have a really good community if you participate civilly in it. It really isnt that hard, just annoying in certain cities. I know that i have been complimented by many many people for helping them out, or for being a good healer when i have my mesmer act as one.

I am really hoping that some people will be instituted to mod some of the behavior in cities, but overall im happy with the community everwhere i have been, exempting the crystal desert from this though, as the desert is full of jackass's and ****wads.

Swarnt Brightstar

Swarnt Brightstar

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: May 2005

Mongolia!... But sadly Florida

Rulers of Mythology <ROM>

R/Mo

Quote:
Originally Posted by Lord Yulath
Well, having a good guild does alot for the fun factor of this game. In a guild with friends i know(or friends of guild members) and my bro. Its a fun fun guild for us. Currently i am the highest level character followed up by my bro. As it stands to help increase the overall level of kindness of the community we have spent the time to sit in towns and answer questions to people.
I was in pre searing with my new character a few days back, and just sat in foibles fair for roughly 2-3 hours answering questions and giving directions. I spend about 3 hours that day as well helping people with missions post searing.

I really think that this game can have a really good community if you participate civilly in it. It really isnt that hard, just annoying in certain cities. I know that i have been complimented by many many people for helping them out, or for being a good healer when i have my mesmer act as one.

I am really hoping that some people will be instituted to mod some of the behavior in cities, but overall im happy with the community everwhere i have been, exempting the crystal desert from this though, as the desert is full of jackass's and ****wads.
I personally think that the desert is full them is because everybody wants to get to the next area, and because they want to ascend so they can have a different second proffesion (I want a mesmer second, but I havent ascended yet...).

Stone

Academy Page

Join Date: May 2005

Australia

Sacred Order

E/Mo

oh i know how you feel marginal, a few times ive just wanted to scream in town "wtf is wrong with you ppl" <_<

I think it comes down to greed, snobism & well the whole world turning to crap syndrome , which is why most of us prefer to sit in our homes online instead of going to the pub , getting into a fight & being robbed on our way home.. well we have home invasions now .. but thats another story .. or is it . omg so negative lolz.. unfortunaly not far from the truth...

Just remember that if you seek you will find, & you have found, a great lil community named GuildwarsGuru , as i say to my relos that complain about me moving to the whack of nowhere with my family, "Theres good & Bad everywhere , Just more or less of em" unfortunatly Consideration for others these days is as rare as true chilvary.
BUT! There are many Good People still around, Dont Give up.

Pm me if you wanna hang out & ask a question or two.. the third Will cost you j/k

I think hardest part of coming to a new game on your own is it does make it very lonely & trying to get help is near impossible ingame becuase of all the factors, Personally i wouldve quit if not for these forums, i was so lost ingame , even after reading through the books i still didnt have an understanding of the game, yea its not easy without friends or a sounding board...

Yea its Hard, but its the way the cookie crumbles... Perserverance is a good word that comes to mind

Swarnt Brightstar

Swarnt Brightstar

Krytan Explorer

Join Date: May 2005

Mongolia!... But sadly Florida

Rulers of Mythology <ROM>

R/Mo

I have no RL friends playing GW so I'm all Alone... But, then the majority of my guild members go out of their way to help me so... Well I only have 8 guild members...

ratatass

ratatass

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Feb 2005

New Mexico

I have played since WPE and know the game in and out pretty much - due to unfortunate events (stuck in Europe) I can't play for a while. (no im not in jail)..


I always answer questions and many a time I help some through a mission or a quest, but I do that less and less because people are f...ing ungrateful. I hav been in districts where some poor soul has begeed for help and I have run him through a mission, or two....then you reach your destination and the sorry sog just disbands ...no thank you ....no nothing...This has happened to often, so I help out less and less.

Helped this guy get a rare max fiery bow. I know a good spot...Dropped for me and I decieded to be nice and give it to the guy...soon as he got ....he said "bye" and was gone..

The same guys that asks a bunch of questions have no patience. You go through a mission and you say stop! Let me explain whats up front and how to solve it....lol - will the noobs listen ? No they are like mad dogs rushing for the gates of hell, waiting on you to be their salvation when the shit hits the fan...die Noobs in your own impatient pool of blood and gore...

he he fun to write stuff like this...

There are two sides :
1. The helper
2. The recipient of help.

No more helping, since the recipeints are ungrateful bastards, just as much as the helpers supposedly are arrogant and unwilling to help.

Hasta la Vista Noobs!


Ratatass

Old Dood

Old Dood

Middle-Age-Man

Join Date: May 2005

Lansing, Mi

W/Mo

Quote:
Originally Posted by ratatass
I have played since WPE and know the game in and out pretty much - due to unfortunate events (stuck in Europe) I can't play for a while. (no im not in jail)..


I always answer questions and many a time I help some through a mission or a quest, but I do that less and less because people are f...ing ungrateful. I hav been in districts where some poor soul has begeed for help and I have run him through a mission, or two....then you reach your destination and the sorry sog just disbands ...no thank you ....no nothing...This has happened to often, so I help out less and less.

Helped this guy get a rare max fiery bow. I know a good spot...Dropped for me and I decieded to be nice and give it to the guy...soon as he got ....he said "bye" and was gone..

The same guys that asks a bunch of questions have no patience. You go through a mission and you say stop! Let me explain whats up front and how to solve it....lol - will the noobs listen ? No they are like mad dogs rushing for the gates of hell, waiting on you to be their salvation when the shit hits the fan...die Noobs in your own impatient pool of blood and gore...

he he fun to write stuff like this...

There are two sides :
1. The helper
2. The recipient of help.

No more helping, since the recipeints are ungrateful bastards, just as much as the helpers supposedly are arrogant and unwilling to help.

Hasta la Vista Noobs!


Ratatass
I hear ya.... But remember there are still those nice rare gems of people there that will be very gratefull for your help.

Even within a mission/quest I try to state a compliment toward someone. That is IF I can get a chance. Sometimes they move so fast I have no time to type...just recharge/heal and fight on

Kaylynn Of Ascalon

Kaylynn Of Ascalon

Frost Gate Guardian

Join Date: May 2005

California

I go out of my way to help fellow players out. I never had much of a problem getting help or questions answered either when I first started playing. Though now the chat window is filled with trade spam so I shut that off. I also shut emotes off. this keeps the window much cleaner. I'm sorry you are not getting the support you want.

Shadowdaemon

Shadowdaemon

Wilds Pathfinder

Join Date: Apr 2005

Anderson IN USA

Ecks Di [xD]

W/N

i personally never had any trouble getting help, there are some people who just seem to be on there to act rude, but for the most part people have been civil from my experience on GW, try playing diablo 2 sometime, then you can see how real jerks act

King of Fools

Academy Page

Join Date: May 2005

south korea

Angels of Anarchy

W/R

i turn off trade and local chat in towns. only turn it on when i need it. otherwise, its just full of garbage that detracts from my fun.
why would anybody stand around asking questions in town anyway? even if somebody happened to be looking at their chat bar. What are the odds they will spot your question as it scrolls by amidst all the WTS, please join my guild, and fur square spam? the odds that somebody in ascalon for more than 3 minutes actually knows the answer are pretty slim.
if you ever have a question you can whisper me and i will get you the answer or better yet google it.

Lunarbunny

Lunarbunny

Lion's Arch Merchant

Join Date: Apr 2005

Seattle, WA, USA [PST | GMT -8]

Ready and Willing [RAWR]

Quote:
Originally Posted by King of Fools
i turn off trade and local chat in towns. only turn it on when i need it. otherwise, its just full of garbage that detracts from my fun.
why would anybody stand around asking questions in town anyway? even if somebody happened to be looking at their chat bar. What are the odds they will spot your question as it scrolls by amidst all the WTS, please join my guild, and fur square spam? the odds that somebody in ascalon for more than 3 minutes actually knows the answer are pretty slim.
if you ever have a question you can whisper me and i will get you the answer or better yet google it.
People ask questions in towns because there are a lot of people around; this gives a chance of many possible people to answer them. I try to help as much as I can, and I do answer their questions as best I can. I also leave the TC on, just in case there's something for me to buy (heck, it's happened before). The odds of spotting the question increase when you skim (v: To read or glance through (a book, for example) quickly or superficially.) Of course, I probably pay more attention to the chat in town than others. If I saw something I'd like to respond to, I just hit ~ and scroll up to it.

Algren Cole

Algren Cole

Banned

Join Date: Jun 2005

I've never had a problem with unhelpful people. When I was pre-sear I new there were alot of players working on a second character that were around specifically because they wanted to help...and I took great advantage of this. I even made efforts to pay some people that were overly helpful and they wouldn't take it. When I went post-sear I had no problems finding monks or warriors that wanted to run me places. Some of them wanted gold for it most of them didn't. As far as I can tell this community is one of the best online communities around. If you don't agree go play counter strike for a day.