Quote:
|
Originally Posted by Kusandaa
Have you ever been rejected from a guild or a group because of your IRL situation? Ethnicity, sexual orientation, language spoken and such...
|
No, I havent. Nor have I seen anything of that sort in the two guilds I have been in - my current or my former.
In my former guild I was an officer and part of the circle that reviewed applications to the guild. We never voted anyone down for any reason like that. Typically someone might fail to have gotten in on counts of immaturity, incomplete application, issues of attitude during interview. These kinds of things. We had to have an application and interview process, as during our heyday we had far more applicants than we knew what to do with.
As for my view generally, I spent all my time in a couple games previous to GW earning the friendship of Japanese gamers and playing with them, being taught some Japanese, picking up what I could, being patient with those that were uncomfortable with English but willing to give it a try as it was better than my Japanese. The friends I made and the fun I had. Played off times as most of my contacts in games were all in Japan. So anyway, I
love the ability to meet and play with gamers from all over. We have a common bond, and one that can overcome a language barrier if two or more people are willing to be patient. It was so rewarding, and made it seem like so much more than a game.
I did it in Guild Wars too, now that I recall my AB days when I was adopted by a French faction guild as their monk on call. I received many compliments and simply always got messaged to come and play, despite my knowing little French and they little English. As before with Japan, loved it. That went on for months until I retired from AB. More gaming experiences like this, please.
I can understand the language barrier thing seeming too hard a hurdle to bother with for many people. There was a great translator in the previous game so you could say a number of basic game-related and social things in any language. That helped, but to really make any progress you had to honestly try the language cold turkey. My experience was if you at least
tried, you made a friend.
Any form of discrimination is in my view prehistoric and reprehensible. Like I say, I can understand people maybe not wanting to try and work through language issues if there isnt a common language involved (I do recommend trying), but ethnic, sex or any of the others? Come on. No excuse for that.
Edit: I can understand discrimination by region or even age, but my previous guild with all the applicants didnt support it at all. We had at one time people from the US, EU, AU, Russia, the Phillipines. Apologies if I forgot any of you.

Youngest was 13 if I recall, and a very mature 13 I might add.