22 Jun 2006 at 04:49 - 181
My first character was a monk, and I still play monk a decent amount in PvE. First of all, I have never met a semi-decent player who performed any decent amount of monk abuse on a regular basis that doesn't ALSO rage on everyone else in the team (random raging happens a lot in pvp). Ever. All the good players I know understand the value of monks, and don't rage on monks unless something really stupid is happening (you know, like running meteor shower on a monk that is supposed to be healing, which by the way, I have seen). So, if you are getting abuse from multiple members of the party, the group probably sucks and will die. Depending on how I'm feeling that day, I may just heal slightly less to accelerate the process. Either way, monks to mitigate this problem, need to learn a few basic points:
1) Have some way of manageing your own energy. If you have no energy management on your bar, you are a bad monk, pure and simple. Energy burn happens, overhealing happens, overaggro happens, even to the best of groups. So, no if your bar has no way to handle that, then you are a bad monk. You are the primary line of defense for your group, and if they make a small mistake (aggroing 2-3 extra guys) the entire group should not wipe, as the monks should be able to handle something like that, assuming enemies are killed in a timely manner. So, I repeat again, bring your own energy management. This is why secondaries like Me or N are preferable to R/W and things like that. Monks should always have some way of getting back some energy so that they can continue to heal.
This is probably a touchy subject, so let me explain what I mean by energy management. What I mean by energy management is skills that reduce your energy burden or skills that directly give you back energy. Here are some examples of energy management skills, some better than others.
Weaker energy management skills:
Healing Seed-Often this skill, if used correctly, can heal someone up full, and make you not need to heal them for the next 10 seconds, even when they are taking a beating. This is energy mangement, but its not very good energy management
Word of Healing-if you always get the big heal out of this (use it when someone is at less than 50% health) the skill replaces heal other and nets 5 virtual energy every time you use it. Of course, very few monks are good enough to accomplish this.
Peace and Harmony-Passive energy regen, also relatively weak for skills, but can be used
Strong Energy Mangement
Life Bond + Blessed Signet + Balthazar's Spirit-The damage PREVENTION of these skills is what is energy mangement. THis is normally counteracted by the -1 energy degen you suffer, but if you run blessed signet, you basically counteract that degen. So in the case where blessed signet is also run on the skillbar, Life Bond/Life Barrier prevents damage that you would otherwise have to heal, thereby reducing your energy management. You can also run life barrier without Balthzar's spirit.
Offering of Blood/Mantra of Recall - Raw energy either on demand (OoB) or stored for later use (MoR)
Drain Enchantment/inspired hex/Inspired Enchantment/Power Drain-More energy on demand skills
2) You are not god, the group does not revolve around you. No one is god in the group. Rage-quitting becomes one person is giving you sass demonstrates nearly as little maturity as the person who is giving you sass. Just shut up and do your job (this applies to non-monks also).
3) If someone is not doing their job, it is perfectly fine to leave them on the floor, as often they are more a hindrance than a help. I do it all the time. The objective is to complete the mission. No one ever specified that all players needed to be alive through most of it.
4) Immediate retaliation against someone who is giving you sass is just going to provoke the problem. Throwing heated words back at them is only going to escalate the argument and is not going to help anyone play better or help with mission completion. Therefore, don't do it. If it gets bad enough where you don't want to handle it, just leave. But you should never leave a group on accout of one person.
That said, there is a significant amount of monk abuse that goes on, and I am aware of it. I have had my fair share of monk abuse thrown in the way of monks of the groups I have been in. Some of it was directed at me, some at the other monks, some at the monks as a whole. This is both in pvp and pve. It doesn't matter, the principle is the same. You only make things worse by acting irrationally and emotionally. So if you want the monk abuse to stop, the first place to start is by treating other people well. What goes around comes around, its as simple as that.